Oilerman1957
Expert Expediter
There has NEVER been a point in my life when I did NOT have a choice. Not all have had good options, but EVERYONE has a choice. Many from the getto have chosen to get out, and DID IT. I worked with several people at the agency, most in fact, that did NOT come from privileged families. I myself am the son of a miner. I wanted more, I got it. College has NOTHING to do with success, personal drive does.
When I got out of high school I CHOSE to go to work on the line at the Wayne Ford it sucked. I would not have stayed there.
I had a choice when my draft time came up, not good choices, so I did the best I could. I COULD have ran away. I did not. I COULD have just waited for the draft and been cannon fodder, I did not. I CHOSE to enlist to have SOME control over my life.
I CHOSE not to get a degree.
Everyone has choices. I have yet to meet that person that did not. The choices may not have given many options but they are ALWAYS there. Remember the men that started Wendy's and Dominoes pizza were raised in an orphanage.
I am glad your not mad. This is the basic discussion that is going on in this country today. This argument is the very division we see in our politics.
Liberals, socialists, what ever you chose to call them, believe that man is NOT able to take care of himself and the they, the smarter and more compassionate, must do that for them.
Conservatives or what ever you call them, believe that everyone can decide better how to live their lives themselves. No one is smart enough or compassionate enough to provide a better life for another.
I was raised to fend for myself. I did. I am and I will continue to do so.
I would consider myself more of a liberal, but yet i dont believe in the way you portray them, and i certainly dont link liberals to socialists.
And yes your right, everyone has choices in most things in our lives, we dont have choices in who are parents are, or to what schools we might get to attend, or neighborhoods we may grow up in, alot is molded into a child at a young age, some may overcome, some may not. Im glad to see you had some good choices to make in your life, not all do, and to just assume cause we has some better choice offers in our lives that everyone does to is not true. Maybe you were raised to fend forself, maybe some others where never taught those skills, maybe they were raised in a drug house, or an abusive family, you dont know what people have been through in there lives and maybe there choice was just find a way to survive there enviroment. The sad part is that in this country that has so much to offer all those things i speak of are happening way to much