And those who disagree with us are?
It seems that everyone will have an opinion about us, what we do and how we do it but without hessitation we have not been like the French, Dutch, Brits or Germans who colonized parts of Africa or Asia and then forced the 'natives' to think and act like they do. Vietnam is a great example of this, but I digress.
If we are to be taken seriously, we can't worry about what others think unless it is seriously a detriment to the relationship we have with that country. But rather need to worry about the objectives aligning with the bigger world stage.
For example, NK's leader demanded only talks with the US back in 2004/5. Bush said "no way little man, it is with others we speak or not at all". Without too much prodding from China, NK relented and we had our talks. The UN and EU went on a tizzy and twisted the facts around to look like we were demands unilateral talks.
Another example which goes to why they want us out of the way is the Iraq Oil for Food thing. John Bolton, a person who wasn't going to pull any crap with the UN fought the good fight to get the UN straight but because of the idiots we have here, he couldn't do much. Without him and others like him within our diplomatic corp, the Iran oil for food thing would have been hidden by the UN. See Germany and France among a few other countries didn't want us to invade Iraq not because they were a soverign country or that the UN already voted and passed a resolution calling for a change or the fact that Clinton set the tone for our operation in Iraq but rather because they didn't want to get caught. Nothing happened, people really didn't go to jail and Anon and others like him got away with murder in many ways.