You have only two options and two solutions. You can choose between them as you see fit.
Make it on your own, or become a ward of the State.
Those are your options.
You can (this is the general you by the way, not the personal you) work your butt off and make things happen. That goes to option one. OR, you can become as mediocre as the rest, do only what is required, or less, and fail. That goes to option two.
Those are your choices.
Once chosen, stick with it, and decide to live on the sum of your choices. It is a choice to lose. IF one chooses to lose, accept it and quit expecting those who choose otherwise to pay for your life.
If you choose to win, you should expect to keep and enjoy the fruits of your own labor.
Make it on your own, or become a ward of the State.
Those are your options.
You can (this is the general you by the way, not the personal you) work your butt off and make things happen. That goes to option one. OR, you can become as mediocre as the rest, do only what is required, or less, and fail. That goes to option two.
Those are your choices.
Once chosen, stick with it, and decide to live on the sum of your choices. It is a choice to lose. IF one chooses to lose, accept it and quit expecting those who choose otherwise to pay for your life.
If you choose to win, you should expect to keep and enjoy the fruits of your own labor.