"Moving day"???

pandora2112

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Like all people of your sorts, when you don't have anything to say, start the name calling. I've seen it before.

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Actually he had a lot to say and not much time to say it....
1. Doesn't matter what age or if in school or not teachers need to accept gay children.
2. Yes we are destroying the earth...look at all the crap we putting into the air and water. It's man made destruction.
3. Christmas was a pagan holiday long before Christ so yep it would be nice if Christians stopped stealing our holidays then getting mad we want them back!

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spongebox

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Actually I have a lot to say, I will post shortly, but I stand by my opinion of you know who, see ya soon boo boo

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Tennesseahawk

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Actually he had a lot to say and not much time to say it....
1. Doesn't matter what age or if in school or not teachers need to accept gay children.
2. Yes we are destroying the earth...look at all the crap we putting into the air and water. It's man made destruction.
3. Christmas was a pagan holiday long before Christ so yep it would be nice if Christians stopped stealing our holidays then getting mad we want them back!

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Some pagans need to go worship some poison ivy. I mean, get deep down and dirty with the weed. #3 just sounded F'n stupid.
 

Turtle

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I really like some of the red herring and straw man arguments being made, although they are all still from a solid emotional base of "I want it, and I want it badly, therefore I should have it." It's really no different than a child throwing a temper tantrum in the candy aisle at the grocery store over a Snickers bar. It's the same exact argument - I want it, so give it to me!

Interracial unions have not been the norm, but that doesn't make it abnormal, it just means it's more rare. An interracial couple can still propagate the species. Same-sex couples cannot, regardless of race. The reason interracial couples have been and still largely is frowned upon is because people are by and large racist to some degree at the genetic level, where they tend to look for a mate that is similar to them.

Well just as YOU dont like being told what to do..neither does a gay person want to be told who they can marry...
Well of course they don't like it, because they want to redefine marriage to mean something that is never has meant in this culture, and they want to do it for for the betterment of society, but for their own selfish reasons.

They dont like YOUR views of who the can marry forced on them
It's the other way around. I'm not forcing my views on them, I'm stating the societal views that have been in place since well before this country was founded. They're the ones trying to force me into approving their personal wishes to redefine what marriage is in this culture.

Marriage started out about power and consolidating that power and yes procreation...but in ancient times it was not strictly religious and it most definitely wasn't about love. The Christian church is the one who pigeonholed marriage to narrow definition of who can get married and as they took over ceremonies became religious. It has not always been that way!!!
No, it hasn't always been that way in every culture in every time, but it's been that way in the vast majority of them, both before and after the Christian church got a hold of it. It's been that way in China, India, an Africa, places where the Christian Church never got a hold of much of anything.

You keep citing historical exceptions to the rule as if it matters. If it does, then we should cite ALL of the exceptions, like in ancient Greece where not only was slavery commonplace, people were of the opinion that a certain segment of the population were born to be slaves, that slavery is what they were best suited for. In ancient Egypt, 3000 years before Christ, homosexuals were put to death on a regular basis, just like they are in some Islamic countries today. Should re re-institute slavery and the wanton killings of homosexuals just because it happened in ancient times? Or do you think it might be better if we just let today's society figure it all out in today's terms and today's times?

A woman can NOT marry another woman..discrimination
How is it discrimination? A man cannot marry another man, either.

It can only be discrimination if it the term "marriage" gets redefined to mean something other than what it means. A marriage is the social institution under which a man and a woman establish their decision to live as husband and wife by legal commitments or religious ceremonies. It's no coincidence that the breeding of livestock and other animals is called "animal husbandry", in order to differentiate it from regular run-o-the-mill human husbandry. Husband and wife, those terms come directly from procreation and propagation of the species. So, again, how is it discrimination to not allow same-sex couples to engage in husbandry, when they cannot possibly do so in the first place? The only way to do that is to redefine the term itself to mean something else.
 

asjssl

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It wasn't imperial law until Augustus took it over, and made it civil. In ANCIENT Rome, it was a religious ceremony.

A marriage license is nothing more than a LEGAL contract between 2 partys...religion is nowhere....i can go in front of a JP and get married..
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asjssl

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I really like some of the red herring and straw man arguments being made, although they are all still from a solid emotional base of "I want it, and I want it badly, therefore I should have it." It's really no different than a child throwing a temper tantrum in the candy aisle at the grocery store over a Snickers bar. It's the same exact argument - I want it, so give it to me!

Interracial unions have not been the norm, but that doesn't make it abnormal, it just means it's more rare. An interracial couple can still propagate the species. Same-sex couples cannot, regardless of race. The reason interracial couples have been and still largely is frowned upon is because people are by and large racist to some degree at the genetic level, where they tend to look for a mate that is similar to them.

Well of course they don't like it, because they want to redefine marriage to mean something that is never has meant in this culture, and they want to do it for for the betterment of society, but for their own selfish reasons.

It's the other way around. I'm not forcing my views on them, I'm stating the societal views that have been in place since well before this country was founded. They're the ones trying to force me into approving their personal wishes to redefine what marriage is in this culture.

No, it hasn't always been that way in every culture in every time, but it's been that way in the vast majority of them, both before and after the Christian church got a hold of it. It's been that way in China, India, an Africa, places where the Christian Church never got a hold of much of anything.

You keep citing historical exceptions to the rule as if it matters. If it does, then we should cite ALL of the exceptions, like in ancient Greece where not only was slavery commonplace, people were of the opinion that a certain segment of the population were born to be slaves, that slavery is what they were best suited for. In ancient Egypt, 3000 years before Christ, homosexuals were put to death on a regular basis, just like they are in some Islamic countries today. Should re re-institute slavery and the wanton killings of homosexuals just because it happened in ancient times? Or do you think it might be better if we just let today's society figure it all out in today's terms and today's times?

How is it discrimination? A man cannot marry another man, either.

It can only be discrimination if it the term "marriage" gets redefined to mean something other than what it means. A marriage is the social institution under which a man and a woman establish their decision to live as husband and wife by legal commitments or religious ceremonies. It's no coincidence that the breeding of livestock and other animals is called "animal husbandry", in order to differentiate it from regular run-o-the-mill human husbandry. Husband and wife, those terms come directly from procreation and propagation of the species. So, again, how is it discrimination to not allow same-sex couples to engage in husbandry, when they cannot possibly do so in the first place? The only way to do that is to redefine the term itself to mean something else.

..what it boils down to is its 2 warm blooded Americans who love and care for each other... in 2012 they CANNOT have the same rights as you and I..how is that not discrimination..i just think people use all sorts of excuses to dance around the fact they hate gays..i mean HATE..why one would care 1 bit who a person loves is beyond me..
So a gay couple can not have kids naturally kinda good.. enough dam people in this world already..



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paullud

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A woman can NOT marry another woman..discrimination

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It is still equal though, a straight woman cannot marry another straight woman just the same as two gay woman cannot marry. There is total equality in the law but you just are not seeing it because you refuse to.

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asjssl

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It is still equal though, a straight woman cannot marry another straight woman just the same as two gay woman cannot marry. There is total equality in the law but you just are not seeing it because you refuse to.

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Huh?? You lost me..

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paullud

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..what it boils down to is its 2 warm blooded Americans who love and care for each other... in 2012 they CANNOT have the same rights as you and I..how is that not discrimination..i just think people use all sorts of excuses to dance around the fact they hate gays..i mean HATE..why one would care 1 bit who a person loves is beyond me..
So a gay couple can not have kids naturally kinda good.. enough dam people in this world already..



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You seem to be missing the point we are making. Where is the discrimination or denial of rights? Two people of the same sex cannot marry and it doesn't matter if they are gay or straight. Two single people of the opposite sex can get married and it doesn't matter if they are gay or straight. I am for civil unions that give all of the same benefits of straight marriage and I really don't care what a couple of guys want to do in their bedroom, a couple of girls on the other hand...no comment. You keep going back to your same point of asking how it is not discrimination when we keep explaining how everyone has the same rights. If 2 straight people of the same sex cannot marry then there is clearly no discrimination.

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pandora2112

Seasoned Expediter
Actually Turtle I've found same sex unions and marriages were happening in Ancient Egypt and Africa....
Marriage has and will continue to be redefined, you can claim it's all about a temper tantrum all you want but fact is it was acceptable in the past, religion changed that mainly the Christian church but Abrahamic religions in general might be more all encompassing. And since one of the fastest growing segments in America are those who are classifying themselves as either non religious or as other (agnostic, pagan, new age, etc) I would bet money that it will redefined to include same sex couples. Personally I think it's about time and I will quite happy when my friends and family who are LGBT can marry whoever they want!

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paullud

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Actually it would be nice to have MY holiday back....

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No one is stopping you from celebrating it so you already have it back. There are multiple holidays that overlap for various reasons but that doesn't stop you.

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pandora2112

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You seem to be missing the point we are making. Where is the discrimination or denial of rights? Two people of the same sex cannot marry and it doesn't matter if they are gay or straight. Two single people of the opposite sex can get married and it doesn't matter if they are gay or straight. I am for civil unions that give all of the same benefits of straight marriage and I really don't care what a couple of guys want to do in their bedroom, a couple of girls on the other hand...no comment. You keep going back to your same point of asking how it is not discrimination when we keep explaining how everyone has the same rights. If 2 straight people of the same sex cannot marry then there is clearly no discrimination.

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Lol! I love the no comment...I'm all for the government making all marriage certificates civil unions as long as everyone gets the same benefits and all states recognize civil unions equally.
Then everyone can choose the ceremony of their choice and enjoy the same benefits. I can have a handfasting, you can a church ceremony, etc etc.

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paullud

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Actually Turtle I've found same sex unions and marriages were happening in Ancient Egypt and Africa....
Marriage has and will continue to be redefined, you can claim it's all about a temper tantrum all you want but fact is it was acceptable in the past, religion changed that mainly the Christian church but Abrahamic religions in general might be more all encompassing. And since one of the fastest growing segments in America are those who are classifying themselves as either non religious or as other (agnostic, pagan, new age, etc) I would bet money that it will redefined to include same sex couples. Personally I think it's about time and I will quite happy when my friends and family who are LGBT can marry whoever they want!

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Then you are happy with a precedent being set that says the government and religion can be mixed simply because a lot of people want it to happen, stop complaining about Christians influencing government then.

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paullud

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Huh?? You lost me..

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If two straight people of the same sex cannot marry, how is it discrimination to say two gay people of the same sex cannot marry?

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paullud

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Lol! I love the no comment...I'm all for the government making all marriage certificates civil unions as long as everyone gets the same benefits and all states recognize civil unions equally.
Then everyone can choose the ceremony of their choice and enjoy the same benefits. I can have a handfasting, you can a church ceremony, etc etc.

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I'm perfectly fine with that and I see no reason to have a law to stop two people of the same sex from having those benefits. I know there are people that won't agree with me on this but I don't believe in legislating moral issues when it does not hurt other people. I do put my religion aside the best I can when it comes to politics but it is a part of who we are and will influence us. I am far from a Bible thumping Christian and honestly I am not convinced the Bible actually considers homosexuality to be a sin. I think you are familiar enough with the Christian faith to know we are supposed to follow the New Testament and I am not aware of anything that condemns it in the New Testament. It might be in there but I am not aware of it.

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pandora2112

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I have never found anything in the new testament...but I am far from an expert. Though I do a have a friend who is a Catholic priest who agrees with that same sentiment and he is much knowledgeable than me on the bible.

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paullud

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I have never found anything in the new testament...but I am far from an expert. Though I do a have a friend who is a Catholic priest who agrees with that same sentiment and he is much knowledgeable than me on the bible.

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I had a gay friend tell me that and I checked with a pastor that thinks homosexuality is a sin. He wasn't able to give me anything that condemns it so I am inclined to believe it is true.

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Turtle

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Actually Turtle I've found same sex unions and marriages were happening in Ancient Egypt and Africa....
I never said there weren't. There have pretty much always been exceptions. There are today, even in the state where same-sex marriage is not an option. I've been to some of the agenda-ized Web sites where they scour through history looking for example after example of same-sex marriage, trying to bolster their claim that it's been accepted in the past. But I also know that a whole snotload of those "marriages" were nothing more than legal contracts and living wills, as it were, and anything found in the history that is remotely close to a union automatically classified as a marriage on those sites.

Marriage has and will continue to be redefined,
No, it's not. You keep saying that, the same thing over and over, almost as if you think that if you say it enough times that I or someone will start to believe it. That's certainly a tried and true tactic right out of the Christian playbook, as well as the Gay Agenda Manual, but it doesn't change the reality. Marriage is and always has been defined as I've already shown it to be defined, as a union of a man and a woman primarily for procreation, but also with legal implications and responsibilities. The fact that there have been exceptions to marriage doesn't in any way change the definition of marriage.

Fortunately, asjssl has given us the new and improved definition of marriage, that of being the union of "2 warm blooded Americans who love and care for each other." The whole notion of procreation and propagation of the species is now completely removed from the definition in any context. The fact that same-sex couple cannot reproduce is noteworthy in that context, I'd think. Sure seems like a redefining of something to fit the wants, needs and desires of someone with a special interest in the thing, rather than to redefine it to encompass the real, actual basis of marriage. Sure, straight couples who get married often love and care for one another, but that's never been the primary purpose of marriage. There are a lot of couples today who get married for a plethora of reasons other than love. But they can't do that anymore if we accept this new definition. Interesting, indeed.

you can claim it's all about a temper tantrum all you want but fact is it was acceptable in the past,
You keep saying that over and over again, but it's still not true. It has been accepted, rarely, in a few cultures for a limited time, but same-sex marriage has never been widely accepted by mankind in any applicable correlation that the gay community now wants it to be accepted. Even today in countries that have full-on same-sex marriages, it's barely tolerated by the masses. It's hardly accepted. The fact is, the percentage of the population which is homosexual is incredibly small, especially when you consider all the attention they are getting (thanks to pushing their views onto others via the courts). Thanks to the hype, publicity, and temper tantrums, most US adult overestimate the homosexual population by as much as 10 times. A Gallup poll done last year revealed that US adults think the gay population is about 25 percent, meaning they think one out of every four people in America is gay. It also doesn't help when the gay community exaggerates their numbers in order to garner credibility.

Yet, every credible survey and study indicates between 2 and 4 percent, and most of those studies state that their estimates are probably on the high end. It doesn't matter the issue is, when only 2-4 percent of the population want it, and the other 96-98 percent don't want it, whatever the 2-4 percent want will never be embraced and accepted by everybody else. It might be tolerated, to a point, but that's about it. So don't kid yourself if you think same-sex marriage was accepted in the past. It wasn't. It was tolerated, to a point, and then it wasn't tolerated anymore. History is just the same thing happening over and over again, with only the participants changing through it.

as religion changed that mainly the Christian church but Abrahamic religions in general might be more all encompassing.
Religion changed the mechanics of marriage, in order to fit the religion, but it didn't change the acceptance of it. There are some people here who will take great issue with this, but the reason the Bible says it's an abomination is because the people of the time thought so, just like most people have always thought so, and if they could convince people that God said those words, well there ya go. It's the same reason why God said don't eat pork, because people wrote it that way, in order to prevent the masses from dying of trichinosis (even though they didn't have a clue what trichinosis was). If the leaders said don't eat pork, people would have still eaten pork, but if God said it, well there ya go. Who's gonna defy God?

My argument against Gay marriage is not a religious one, A) because I'm not religious, and B) because any argument based on a belief, especially a religious doctrinal belief, will always fall short (no matter how vehemently they believe or argue it). The only way you can win a belief argument is if the one you are arguing with also has the same belief. That's also why the gay community wants the M-word, because it goes directly against that belief system. They want to win.

And since one of the fastest growing segments in America are those who are classifying themselves as either non religious or as other (agnostic, pagan, new age, etc) I would bet money that it will redefined to include same sex couples.
It may very well be, but it will done over the objections of society at large, and it will never be fully accepted by heterosexuals, regardless of the religious faith status. It will be, as homosexuals are not, grudgingly tolerated, but never accepted as perfectly fine and normal. Like I said, you don't have to have ever read a Bible to know that homosexuality is wrong.

Personally I think it's about time and I will quite happy when my friends and family who are LGBT can marry whoever they want!
You know what they say - be careful what you wish for. There are always unintended consequences with forced social issues. Always.
 

Turtle

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I had a gay friend tell me that and I checked with a pastor that thinks homosexuality is a sin. He wasn't able to give me anything that condemns it so I am inclined to believe it is true.
There isn't anything in the New Testament that mentions homosexuality in any context. Of course, the term itself and the entire notion of homosexuality, heterosexuality, bisexuality, sexual orientation, are modern terms that one wouldn't expect to find in any text prior to about the 18th century. There are three passages in the New Testament for those who look hard enough and want to interpret it to mean what they want it to mean, speak to homosexuality. Romans 1:26-27 is the favorite, but it really doesn't give details. On the interpreters can give you those. Those verses can be interpreted to mean any number of things. Those looking for homosexuality in them will certainly find it. Those looking for a game of poker can find it in there, too.

But it doesn't matter, since the Old Testament is just chock full of homosexual references that are quite clear and unambiguous. Christians have for many centuries been able to pick and choose which parts of the Old Testament they want to go with, and discard the rest. It's real easy and convenient that way. No fuss, no muss, no conflicting rules to deal with.
 
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