Turtle, that was NOT the point. Moral people use judgement to stay out of trouble. I was taught by my parents and in school to use "good judgement" in choosing my friends, my actions etc. That ability kept me from getting into trouble as many my age did. I could "judge" that a person was of bad character and stayed away from them. It is a needed skill.
There are three types of morality, and they are very distinctively different from each other. They are:
Descriptive Morals, Normative Morals, and
Ethical Morals.
You are confusing the different types and are trying to put all of your morals into a single type. No offense intended, I promise, but this is exactly what many religious people do. Their religious morals (Descriptive Morals) are so strongly held that other types of morals are viewed through the same black and white lens, so that even judgment morals (Ethical Morals) are no longer a judgment call, but a very delineated right or wrong, i.e., if you don't agree with someone's judgment, then
their judgment is wrong.
Descriptive Morality is that strict code of conduct that is the final authority of what constitutes right and wrong. Descriptive Morals are defined by society (laws), philosophy (experience and predictive outcomes), religion (various Commandments or other religious laws), and individual conscience (if the thought of doing something makes you nauseous or uncomfortable, like incest or cannibalism, there ya go). These are not objective morals, but are very subjective to their creation, and are non-negotiable to those who believe in the basis of what created and defined them.
Normative Morality is the type of morality that all rational people would agree on if given the same set of circumstances. These are the objective, normal morals that normal people encounter through their relatively normal lives, and the moral choice taken is the one that most people would also choose. For example, religious or atheist, most people can agree that murder is wrong, your background and belief system is irrelevant to this morality.
Ethical Morality is where moral judgment calls get made (largely, the kind that keep you out of trouble,
IF you make the right call). This is where cause and effect are determined, and sometimes flip-flopped where you try and determine how a moral outcome can be achieved under a given set of circumstances (those "good judgments" in choosing what to do or who to become friends with that keep you out of trouble that you talked about). This is also where some parts of Normative Morality gets defined, using Normative Ethics, to determine which morals people obey and which ones are either no longer obeyed or no longer relevant (livin' in sin, sex out of wedlock, a wife disagreeing with her husband in public).
Ethical Morality shows that moral judgments like stealing, murder, lying, all can be agreed upon by most in a given set of circumstances, but not by all in another set of circumstances, as they are objective. These can include many, many things, but for our purposes here, they include abortion, capital punishment, wars of invasion which results in loss of life.
The problem comes when someone wants to take a firm hold on a Normative Morality, like abortion, and encase it in their own very subjective non-negotiable Descriptive Morality, and then force your non-negotiable morality onto others who aren't borne of the basis of the belief that made it non-negotiable in the first place, which is precisely what you and many anti-abortionists attempt to do.
If you want to make people believe the same way as you do about abortion, you must first make them believe in the same things that created the circumstances which created the non-negotiable morality in the first place. For example, if you're talking to a Jew who does not believe in Jesus, you're gonna have a tough time convincing him to embrace a moral decision that is based on the existence of Jesus. There is very little that you can point to in the New Testament that will force a Jew to change their moral thinking.
Your morals are your morals, but don't kid yourself into thinking that yours are the
only morals worth having. Otherwise, you're not allowing people to make their own moral judgments, you're trying to make their moral judgments for them.
Not to use judgement in your life is foolish. That leads to trouble for many. It is a silly and somewhat dangerous idea that is the foundation of an amoral sociaty. It has lead to people like Hitler and Stalin.
Judgements (moral decisions, I'm assuming you're talking about) are made every day by both the wise and the foolish. Seems to me that you're saying that moral judgments need to be made, but only if they are based on the morality that you agree with, only if they are the same moral judgments that you would make yourself.
What if I have a different morality about some things? Is my morality right, or wrong?
I will NOT lower my standards to become part of a sociaty that places more value on sleeze and matierial things than they do on living a moral life.
Your morals or someone else's?
The sleeze we see on a daily baisis is due to a lack of judgement.
Or a lack of moral guidance.