A wave of new Expediters?

mypie

Seasoned Expediter
Wow - You didn't mention a wave of new expediters!

Don't Hate. I can only say that you are probably young. Your metabolism is also young. Used to be a time when I couldn't gain an ounce no matter what I ate. Now, my metabolism has slowed and I find it hard to loose and ounce. Funny thing, my body gave me no warning that it was going to make this change before it did. Believe me - I eat really healthy foods. For me, it was the rice and pasta. Watch it'll catch up with you too!
 

arkjarhead

Veteran Expediter
Re: Wow - You didn't mention a wave of new expediters!

Well the Natural Gas industry is suppossed to start booming here in Arkansas soon. That should bring more jobs. I told my wife whenever I finished school we were moving where we could get the best jobs. Im not going to school for 4-6 years to get out and work for peanuts just so I can say I leave in a certain area. I want to live somewhere where I can get a decent wage and the cost of living isn't through the roof.

Speaking of Michigan I almost got my butt whooped in a TA north of Detroit one time. I was sitting there at the counter eating lunch and there were quite a few guys sitting there I thought were drivers. They were talking about people not working. I made a couple of comments about people sitting on their lazy butts and just drawing a check and not trying to work. They got upset because they weren't drivers they were locals that sit in that truckstop from about 7am to about 5pm then they went home. Everyday that's what they did. I think I would be packing my belongs to go look for work and when I found it I would go back and get my family.

I'll just be glad when I can stop building birdhouses. Only thing is there is pretty good money in birdhouses.
 

BillChaffey

Veteran Expediter
Owner/Operator
US Navy
Mypie,
I don't hate anyone. I'm 67 years old have worked for .60 cents an hour to be able to eat I have NEVER drawn unemployment or Welfare. The majority of these people are LAZY. Offer them a job and they will say I won't work for that little. Obesity is a life style choice for a lot of people. The Illegals who cross the boarder wouldn't find half the work they have if the folks on Welfare would get off their A-- and work for what they are now given for free.
 

arkjarhead

Veteran Expediter
Mypie,
I don't hate anyone. I'm 67 years old have worked for .60 cents an hour to be able to eat I have NEVER drawn unemployment or Welfare.

What's wrong with drawing unemployment while you are between jobs? I mean it's money you paid into the program. That's why it's called unemployment insurance.
 

OntarioVanMan

Retired Expediter
Owner/Operator
Unemployment is a personal choice. I woud rather work then collect.

But sometimes some people are really stuck between jobs even for just a little time....and after all.... I paid into it and it IS called insurance....if you had an accident don't you call your insurance agent to collect money???
 

mypie

Seasoned Expediter
That is an excellent point, if you got into an accident you would call your agent to have your truck fixed - because that's what you pay insurance for. Right? Or, would you just pay to have it fixed out of pocket? Not likely!

If you are staying in touch with "real world" news outlets, you should be aware that people are having a harder time getting jobs and it is taking longer (up to 6 or more months) to land a job that pays less than the job they lost. Unemployment insurance only pays about 1/2 of what you were making as an employee and it runs out after 6 months. Unemployment Insurance is not a hand out!

But, I find your comment about welfare equally obsolete as well. If you remember, way back in the '90s there was Welfare Reform which limited the length of time that someone could collect Welfare. There are times in life and circumstances that could force someone to take assistance (ie, divorce, single mom, job loss, eviction, etc.). Somethings are just out of people's control and they just need some kind person to reach out a helping hand to get back on their feet. I don't know anybody that wants to take Welfare. I don't know anybody that relishes handing a grocery store cashier a foodstamp card only to get that condescending look that makes them feel smaller than an ant. I don't know anybody that wouldn't rather be earning a living for themselves and their kids, and the pride that comes with it.

You have made a lot of assumptions in your post. Let me make one also, what if the person that got let off at the door is in some way disabled? What if that person can't work because of an illness that can't be seen from the surface? You would never know, now would you?

Don't judge. Jesus wouldn't judge. Jesus would feed the poor. Jesus would heal the sick and the lame. Jesus would teach someone to fish and feed them for a lifetime.

What I suggest for you is that you need to count your blessings. Your blessings that you have the knowledge and are able to work and feed yourself. Your blessings that you have never needed to seek assistance, so that others that have needed could get the help that they have needed if only for a day. And, if I were you, I would pray that I am never placed in the position of needing to ask for help - because it is a hard thing to do.
 

BillChaffey

Veteran Expediter
Owner/Operator
US Navy
Mypie, for the amount of people you have never met you must lead a very sheltered life.
 

mypie

Seasoned Expediter
Simply not true! I have seen situations and circumstances that you simply couldn't imagine while you are sitting behind the wheel, cut-off from the world at large while still travelling it. I have seen hardships that you couldn't possibly imagine unless you'd been there yourself.

I have worked on a volunteer basis for an organization assisting developmentally disabled seniors who were born with disabilities that would never allow them to carry on what you and I would call a normal life. Their families that supported them their whole life - all dead with no other way of support. I would shop for them using their foodstamp cards and I got those looks from people that I described earlier.

I've volunteered to work in homes with battered women and children where their men controlled all the money leaving them no way of escape.

Do you want me to go on. These are things I am certain that you cannot see sitting behind the wheel, and I'm certain you excluded from your summation. So, in reply I must say, it is you that has lived a sheltered life.
 

RLENT

Veteran Expediter
What's wrong with drawing unemployment while you are between jobs? I mean it's money you paid into the program. That's why it's called unemployment insurance.
Nothing .... if you don't abuse it.

I have a friend that lives up the street from me .... he's a certified welder and when employed usually makes a decent wage. For the 10 or so years I have known this guy he seems to go thru a fairly regular cycle ..... find a job and hold it for awhile (usually about a year or less) ...... get laid off/let go etc. .... sign up and collect unemployment. Then the whole cycle repeats .... again and again ....

Problem is anytime he gets on unemployment he wants to "milk it" for as long as he can ..... and really only begins to look for a job in earnest when the unemployment is about to run out. He just has a hard time getting past that idea of "free money" for doing nothing ..... there's a whole class of folks that have adopted this mindset ..... "do nothing and receive something for nothing" ..... to give ya hint of who they are: alot of them are where they rightly should be - behind bars.

He's managed to avoid losing the house so far ..... but methinks it's only a matter of time before his luck runs out ...... you can only screw the pooch for so long before it catches up with ya.
 

Falligator

Expert Expediter
I had a friend who does nothing but collect disability. I don't know how he gets it b/c there is nothing that I can see wrong with him. That's the government for ya. Nothing like getting a check for sitting on your butt.
 

BillChaffey

Veteran Expediter
Owner/Operator
US Navy
My last remark on this. Mypie your a Saint, everyone on Welfare is disabled, there's not an able bodied, lazy, milk the system person out there.
 

mypie

Seasoned Expediter
Actually, disability is quite difficult to qualify for. First you have to go to SSD's Drs. who are paid to push the envelope to disqualify applicants - hoping that they'll just go away. Surely you've seen the commercials for Binder & Binder, a law firm that works exclusively for people that have filed for Disability and have been declined. The majority of the applicants that have been declined have a justifyable disability which prevents them from working. If you are expected to go before someone else's Dr. to qualify, you damb well better have a qualifyable disability. I experienced this same situation with a person born with Downs Syndrome who had an IQ of 55 and was initially turned down by SSD. It was like telling a 1st grader to get a job.

I'm not saying that there aren't people that take advantage of the system, but there are limitations and a whole list of requirements to continue qualifying for services every 6 months. If and when they are able to stand up on their own - they are cut loose.

In the case of battered women and children, after some initial self-esteem building counseling, job getting, apartment getting, etc. handholding the process is usually pretty quick to getting off the welfare rolls and standing on their own. This means that the mother and eventually the children will become productive adults all because there was someone that cared.

What I am saying is that there are people truly in need and that you cannot generalize with no exclusion. If I were to have a problem with the welfare system - it would be with illegals who have communicated the system to those yet to come and their first stop upon crossing the border is the local welfare office. American can't afford to be buried beneith the world's problems and be expected to survive. As I think I've indicated, we do have "real" problems of our own.

And, if you can't see why your friend is on SSD and can't work - you might try asking him.

PS - I'm no saint - What I intend is to leave this earth just a little better than I found it.
 
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BillChaffey

Veteran Expediter
Owner/Operator
US Navy
I am sorry to go back on my word BUT Disability is not difficult to qualify for. This Country is crawling with Attorneys advertising services to get a person qualified. I had two good friends who have since cashed in. One in his late thirties and the other early fifties. They both drew full disability as Alcoholics. I went to school with the Attorney who represented them. They we not allowed to get the checks them selves so it went to the Attorney. Then the three would go on a Toot until the next month. Alcoholics, Drug Addicts both can qualify for full Disability.
 

greg334

Veteran Expediter
I have to throw this in.

Welfare?

Some think that unemployment and welfare are the same thing, it is just them and no reason to try to change their way of thinking BUT....

I am getting the point that government run programs should be stopped and we go back the way it used to be. And if you don't know what I am talking about, then sit down and do some research. I think that there are only two reasons one should be allowed to apply for disability - you are born with a problem or had a serious accident that causes you to be 'limited' (meaning not be able to lead a normal life) or you were in the armed forces.

Before anyone jumps on me for that comment, I have to say I have been and seen how the system works from both sides.

As I was buying my supplies for the week at the expediters outlet, I was standing in line next to a guy who had a completely full shopping cart full of items. There were all kinds of food, and even two cases of beer. He was loud, telling the clerk that he is on Medicaid because he had a heart attack 7 months ago and he don't want to return to work until he is 'well' enough to do so. Then the clerk told him, she too had her first heart attack when she was 26, she looks in her mid 40's. She too still has Medicaid and some welfare benefits but because she works, she get 80% of her food paid for. No kids by the way. The guy was boasting that his welfare card will pay for everything except the DVDs and he kept those separated but he was thinking to go back and get more beer because he thinks he didn't come close to the monthly limit of money he has all the while telling the clerk that his 'stressful' job was the cause of his heart attack, he was a teamster - while I am standing there thinking he has no clue what stress is all about if his job cause him to be on welfare.

That is one example, here is another.

My wife has a friend from one of her jobs who is on complete disability and receives all the benefits from the state and federal government. She is single, she has a now paid off home and she has a degree in electrical engineering with 10 years of experience in her field, heavy electronics (you know power station engineering). She was put on disability because she has PTSD, mild case of it as agree with by the court but the cause of it is bizarre and to me really disgusting. I don't even qualify for any help and here she is getting $3000 a month in combined benefits because she had an affair with a manager at her work, his wife found out and he broke off the affair. She fell to pieces, when into therapy and then she was told because of the 'stress' that she incurred due to the break up of her affair, she can go on disability and that is what she has done. She was suing the company she worked for at the same time she was trying to get the deemed disabled but they settled out of court for an undisclosed amount ($500K after lawyers fees).

And I have my Brother-in-law who is also on disability, he blames his "childhood" for his drinking and drug problem and got away with it. He collects $2500 a month in benefits, we are putting him through school (which I don't think it should be a benefit for anyone at this point) and even though he still drinks and uses drugs, he gets to go to rehab when ever he wants.
 

cheri1122

Veteran Expediter
Driver
You think all assistance programs should be ended, because you know someone is collecting "free money" that they don't deserve, in your opinion?
By that logic, major league sports need to be ended, too, because so many of the players are cheating with steroids - they're collecting money that they don't deserve, by use of fraud, no?
I've never even tried to collect anything other than unemployment, and not even that for more than a few weeks, but I can assure you: the government doesn't make it easy to collect money for not working. (They don't make it easy to collect money for working, either, if you're a driver!)
The reason the government took over the assistance to the needy is because "the way it used to be" clearly didn't work. Those who hadn't any family, or religion, just fell through the cracks, (the way so many with mental disorders still do).
If you will concede that there are folks who cannot work, how would you deal with it?

 

RLENT

Veteran Expediter
There is one thing for sure in this argument about what should be done or what shouldn't, what the proper governmental role is, and what the role is for private action (charity) and that is simply this:

Generally speaking, whatever you reward, you are going to get more of, and whatever you penalize, you are going to get less of.

Reward non-production, "disability", and so-called "mental illness" and you will get more of all it.

On the flip-side, if you penalize being productive, producing an income, employing others, etc. you are going to less of that.

It's a fairly simple principle really - one that this country, it's citizens, and political leaders have ignored for far too long. It would be relatively to reverse any of these situations - you merely have to operate off the above principle and structure any "solutions" so that they don't violate this fundamental natural law.
 

greg334

Veteran Expediter
You think all assistance programs should be ended, because you know someone is collecting "free money" that they don't deserve, in your opinion?
By that logic, major league sports need to be ended, too, because so many of the players are cheating with steroids - they're collecting money that they don't deserve, by use of fraud, no?

Well Actually I think that the Baseball exemption should be lifted because of the steroids issue alone and the government should not be footing the bill for new stadiums.

No Cheri, I do not think assistance programs should be stopped I think government run programs should be stopped. There is a difference and the source of the money is not what the issue is but it is how it is handled, how much real aid gets to people who need it and how much is the cost to provide the aid without leaving gaps in the system. The same money being wasted paying people in government to help people positions would be better and more efficiently spent if just given to organizations at the local level.

I also feel that the corruption and abuse will end if there is local control.

I've never even tried to collect anything other than unemployment, and not even that for more than a few weeks,

Good for you but unemployment is a different issue, a different program and you as an employee indirectly pay into it. I think that when you lose your job, there should be no signing up for it, the money should be returned to you. The same goes for Taxes, you created the wealth through your labor and should not be taxed on it.

but I can assure you: the government doesn't make it easy to collect money for not working.

No, I can not agree with this at all. I went through part of the process and watched a lot of people get into the system easily, they didn't have to work that hard or in most cases needed it. It seemed to me that there was a game to be played and the thought that some with situations where they 'can't' handle some life issue should be allowed to be deemed disabled cheapens the entire concept of helping people who need help.
The reason the government took over the assistance to the needy is because "the way it used to be" clearly didn't work. Those who hadn't any family, or religion, just fell through the cracks, (the way so many with mental disorders still do).

NO Cheri, the government created the programs not because enough wasn't being done but they wanted to meet some far fetched utopia goals that many in the government could work here because it 'worked' in the Soviet Union. Mind you that FDR had people who supported Stalin and Lenin and were over there watching these systems be formed at the same time millions were being staved to death to make a political statement. The meddling of our society by government have reaps negative rewards, always has. The idea that the government needs, has to or must take care of people creates more problems, more complacency and more laziness than it helps to eliminate.

You know back in the 1960's the government looked at the poor and poverty and said we need to do something about this. We took people who were hard working people, who were willing to work and gave them a means not to work, a reason not to work. This was the Great Society and it failed. If the government wanted to help, they would have gotten out of the way.

We now have the richest poor people in the world. Our poverty level is still higher than a lot of the world's nations standard of living.

So Dividing the issue up, there is a difference between mental health and every thing else to me. I strongly feel that our mental health programs and facilities went to the wayside because of the money needed to shore up the welfare programs. My state alone in my life time shut down most of the mental health facilities to help balance the welfare budget. Sorry I feel that feeding people should come second to maintaining a mental health system - the trade off is obvious by the fact that we didn't have mass starvation in the 40's and 50's when the mental health system was at the peak in this country. We always found ways to feed and cloth people, but we just haven't had the insight on how to help them with real mental issues - not the BS that is going on today because people are not taught how to handle life issues, but real help for real problems. It was always that the help for food and clothing was at the local levels and even today, you can find a lot of help at the local levels that the government can't/won't help.

The surprising thing is the ignorance of the past, many think that we were such a horrible country in the past and what we have today in the way of social programs are real solutions - they are not. Once we had community involvement, we had real disaster relief (and many forget the Katrina sized disasters of the past where the government had zero to do with rescue work, feeding and clothing displaced people and rebuilding their world - it all was done on local and state levels and worked!) and we didn't have the cost of running things like we do. We didn't have the isolation you speak of but we had pride not to accept hand out or aid but do it ourselves. Many didn't have family, didn't have religion to fall back on but they had their community.

We are a product of what FDR has started, we don't have the experiences of life before the alphabet programs and we never even knew what it was like to be paid in cash, or shop in our neighborhood stores or even know how the relief system worked back then. When people say that people fell through the cracks, it was much better than then it is now.
If you will concede that there are folks who cannot work, how would you deal with it?

I contend that there are some cases that people need assistance, and say that those cases should be helped but not at the level of involvement that we have today. But with that said, I know cases where no help is being provided even thought there is a slightly compelling case to do so.

One such case is a friend of ours who we have been helping out. She has gone through a horrible marriage and finally got a divorce. losing almost everything in the process. She has struggled to raise two kids, one is off to the war and the other is too young to even work. she has two medical problems and has to deal with constant pain from an auto accident. She has been refused any sort of disability, and has been just trying to keep up with her utilities and house payment. She enrolled in the system in the state but the state has played a lot of games with her and she and her daughter will be out on of their home in the next month and most likely will be living with us. She is one of two we have been helping because the system will not help them. We all have a mutual friend who's daughter now has a kid and will not get married. She lives at home, she is sitting there on welfare doing nothing but gets paid for anything she needs. Her parents took her off their insurance (is an extra $30 a month for her and the kid) so she can stay on Medicaid. She is now enrolled in College and even has transportation to and from school. Sorry Cheri, the system is broke and has been for a long long time, so scrapping and handling it back to the local control would be better for all than to have things like this and others I posted go on.
 

cheri1122

Veteran Expediter
Driver
Let me see if I get what you're saying: the government makes it so easy to collect money for nothing, even when you're able & willing to work, that they've destroyed the work ethic.
But your friend, who really needs some help, cannot get any help from that same government, huh?

In all my experience, the former scenario is mostly myth - a convenient stereotype that wasn't true even before welfare reform, and is a ghastly joke, now, when people can work two jobs & still not make enough money to live a modestly comfortable life.
The situation your friend is in, though - that's all too common. There are a LOT of reasons why folks who would like to be self sufficient can't, and few of them are laziness.
One of my brothers in law is disabled, after an accident that permanently damaged his neck. He is collecting disability, (after being denied the first time, and nearly losing his house, before the appeal was heard - that's how generous the government is, to folks who haven't got much to begin with) and dealing with the stigma - people who don't know anything except that he doesn't LOOK 'crippled' often assume he's gaming the system, you know? He's gotten pretty depressed, because he wants to be the good provider he was before the injury, and it hurts his pride & ego, to have his wife bringing home a paycheck. Well, it did, but not anymore, because her job was outsourced, nearly a year ago. She isn't finding much to replace it either, in spite of having been very good at her job, because the competition is intense, if the pay is much above minimum. Now she's getting depressed, which makes looking for work pretty tough, I know - been there, done that.
This is the reality I see, not people who collect money for nothing, because they'd rather go stand in line at a government office for hours. If collecting any of that 'free money' is half as demoralizing as applying for unemployment was, it would be much easier to go to work. Except for that pesky little problem of finding a job that will cover the rent, utilities, car payment (used car, of course, the welfare Cadillac is another myth), clothing & medical care, etc, etc, etc
Welfare is always going to be a necessity, but so are decent jobs - and that's what we haven't got enough of to go around, anymore.
 

mypie

Seasoned Expediter
Hi Cheri,

Good to see you here.

The reason the government took over the assistance to the needy is because "the way it used to be" clearly didn't work. Those who hadn't any family, or religion, just fell through the cracks, (the way so many with mental disorders still do). Cheri - you're right!

You are 100% correct about this. I really don't want to bring Social Security into the mix, but it is very similar to the other subjects. As a matter of fact SSI and SSD are Social Security! The reason that Social Security was created is that as people aged the only thing retirement meant was poverty and starvation! Our country needed a conscience! How could we treat our seniors this way after they have worked all their lives. Do you really want to go back to pre-FDR? It didn't work to privatize these issues because people thought it was everybody elses problems and they failed to get involved. The reality was it is all of our problems - that's why the government took over.

That being said, I agree, SSI and SSD are difficult and time consuming to qualify for and a genuine disability must be proven. If you know somebody that is collecting that is not disabled, please report them to the SSI/SSD and state why. Afterall, Politics is a Game of Engagement - Right.

As for the person that got $500K after attorneys fees - that's a private law suit probably waged against an employer for sexual harrassment in the workplace - not disability - not out of the public pocket!

All this being said, we have agreed that Unemployment Insurance is insurance paid by both the employer and the employee to help people in times of job loss. It is not Welfare.

We do not want to eliminate Social Security and this has to go on to include SSI and SSD, because we want to be a country with a conscience to help people that can't otherwise help themselves be it permanantly or temporary. This too has been paid into by the individuals that are now seeking assistance through payroll deductions. So, we agree that there are people with genuine disabilities that prevent them from working - and it would be cruel and inhumane to not care about them and simply allow them to starve to death - right! We have a conscience - right?

Now, all that is left is the young mother of 3 kids that was in a bad and abusive marriage where the husband controlled all of the money. The husband didn't allow her to work - because he needed to control all the power. Or, if he did allow her to work he took her paycheck from her - to disable any attempt of escape. He has alienated her from all of her friends and family - to isolate her. He beats her. He is emotionally abusive and robbed her of any self-esteem she once had. The children are watching the abuse and are being psychologically and emotionally affected by it. Tonight is no exception, it starts with a fight, being called a stupid ****** then hit, then battered, he goes to the kitchen and grabs a knife, the children frightened for their mothers life take a phone into the closet and call 911, the police arrive, the man is removed from the home, the mother and child are taken to a shelter in an undisclosed location but she can't stay there long.

Now, here's your challenge - Do you have a conscience? You have 3 choices.

1) You send her back to the home, where her husband will be when he gets out of jail, and the cycle will continue and evenutally she will end up dead (witnessed by her children and damaging them for life); or,

2) Do you offer her emergency assistance (because she can't afford to pay for them), provide her with psycological counseling, housing assistance, job training, food stamps, and temporary emergency welfare assistance; or,

3) Do you give her and her kids a ratty old car, some blankets and point to the church that feeds the homeless.

There is only one right conscience answer to this . . . You teach her to fish and feed her for a lifetime, making her a productive member of society and paying into the system that once saved her life so that someday when another person in desperate need of help will receive it - and our country will be all the better for it.

I will not argue that "the System isn't broke", it is. I will not argue that there are some people that are on the take. It is your responsibility to notify authorities if you know of someone that is on the take. But, chances are more likely that your friend needs to be more persistant at getting help (it's a difficult process) and the girl that is collecting has not disclosed all the gory details of her circumstances to you.

However, the answer is not in privatization. One only needs to watch the news (not listen to Rush Limbaugh) to learn when the Government does not keep a tight reign over their programs, it breeds conartists and fraud in the billions of dollars (ie Medicade billing).

And, don't even talk to me about the debockle of Katrina when the Federal Government didn't get involved until it was too little, too late. That was the greatest shame in American history, short of slavery and the Civil War. New Orleans still hasn't recovered from the incompetence of our President more than 2-1/2 years after the fact! Shame on you for bringing it up.
 
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