Ok, the points to respond to are spread out over numerous posts, so I'll have to aggregate my points here.
·It's not the religious aspect in play here. I'm not complaining that Christianity is being slighted. It is, but that's a wholly separate issue.
·This is a matter of Western culture. As Savage says, a nation is defined by borders, language, and culture, and that we celebrate the civil and religious holidays of Christmas is what we do in this country. No one has to, and you're certainly free to celebrate Chanukah or even Festivus if you like. But the vast, vast majority of Americans celebrate Christmas.
·Kwanzaa is, indeed, fraudulent. It was invented by a criminal for ridiculous purposes, and though you certainly have the right to observe it if you want to be foolish, it deserves no recognition from anybody.
·Christmas--the civil observance-- is the only holiday in play here that revolves around substantial gift giving. Chanukah has some gift giving, but it's actually a relatively minor Jewish holiday. You can't compare (civil observance-wise) the gift giving at Christmas with getting small gifts like a dreidel. They're not the same thing. Chanukah is not the Jewish equivalent of Christmas.
·The de-evolution of "Merry Christmas" into "Happy Holidays!" at Target and others is similarly offensive. "Merry Christmas", unless you know for a fact someone celebrates something else, is standard here. That's American culture and that's how it must stay. If you celebrate some outer space holiday and you hear "Merry Christmas," say, "Thank you, and a happy Shama-lamma Ding Dong to you." Then the other person will know you celebrate something else and can wish you a Happy Zisboombah or whatever else in return.
·If you want your observance to have primacy, move to wherever that's primarily observed. For Judaism, that would be Israel or even moreso, New York City or West Palm. For whatever filthy observance Muslims make, maybe that one where they beat their chests and cut themselves, that would be some filthy third-world (rhymes with spithole) like Yemen or Dearborn or Hamtramck (funny how Islam and third-world spitholes go together, isn't it?). Here in America, it's Christmas. That's American culture, and this is America. See how they go together?
·No matter what you celebrate, the amalgamated "holiday season" crap should offend everybody.