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How do we decide whose beliefs prevail, when they don't agree?
Why should 'beliefs' [not founded on fact] hold the same place in law as actual facts?
It would seem that you are boiling down religion to nothing more than 'beliefs,' and therefore can dismiss those who believe, and their beliefs, as irrelevant. The fact is, religion is important to most people, and so are the beliefs that go along with them. Those beliefs are not merely a belief in God and a belief in the Bible stories, or even in the dogma of the religion, but those beliefs set a structure for a set of morals and behaviors by which they strive to live their lives. Most of our laws are based on those same morals and standards of behavior. Those 'beliefs' [not founded on fact] hold the same place in law as actual facts because people are allowed to worship and practice their religion as they see fit. It's not a question of who's beliefs should prevail when they don't agree, it's a question of whether or not one set of beliefs put an undue and unreasonable burden on the other set of beliefs. The one that should prevail is the one that doesn't put the undue burden on the other, particularly if that undue burden results in the exercise of religion being substantially burdened (which, incidentally, what the Indiana law states, and it wasn't reversed), because after all, freedom of religion is freedom of thought, and people have the right to be free in their thoughts.
 

cheri1122

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I don't believe that "totally ignored" is credible - disrespect requires a response, lest it escalate. [Except in road rage - that's not a face to face encounter]. Disrespect is not acceptable from those who choose to serve the public.
Considering how many beliefs one can claim, it is ludicrous to assert that they be accorded the status of law.
 

cheri1122

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It would seem that you are boiling down religion to nothing more than 'beliefs,' and therefore can dismiss those who believe, and their beliefs, as irrelevant. The fact is, religion is important to most people, and so are the beliefs that go along with them. Those beliefs are not merely a belief in God and a belief in the Bible stories, or even in the dogma of the religion, but those beliefs set a structure for a set of morals and behaviors by which they strive to live their lives. Most of our laws are based on those same morals and standards of behavior. Those 'beliefs' [not founded on fact] hold the same place in law as actual facts because people are allowed to worship and practice their religion as they see fit. It's not a question of who's beliefs should prevail when they don't agree, it's a question of whether or not one set of beliefs put an undue and unreasonable burden on the other set of beliefs. The one that should prevail is the one that doesn't put the undue burden on the other, particularly if that undue burden results in the exercise of religion being substantially burdened (which, incidentally, what the Indiana law states, and it wasn't reversed), because after all, freedom of religion is freedom of thought, and people have the right to be free in their thoughts.

Freedom of thought does not equal freedom of actions.
 

LDB

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Some people are not worth killing, so you totally ignore them.
 

Turtle

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Freedom of thought does not equal freedom of actions.
With respect to the exercise of religion, it actually does mean freedom of actions, if the opposing belief puts a substantial burden on the exercise of that religion.

Incidentally, the notion that disrespect requires a response, lest it escalate, is horse hockey. I have been disrespected many times. Acknowledging it validates and dignifies it. I generally chose to ignore it rather than dignify it with a response.

Also, beliefs aren't accorded the status of law. What is accorded the status of law, however, is the freedom from the state impeding the free exercise of religion.

I'm not religious, not even a little bit. And you know that. But I also am aware that people should be able to believe in a religion if they so choose, and be able to worship freely and unimpeded. Otherwise, I could be compelled to believe in a religion and be compelled to worship in a prescribed manner. I don't want that. That's what a free country is. People are free to believe whatever they want. Where I draw the line is when they want to encroach their beliefs into the science classroom.

No one here is suggesting that the sandwich people (Lettuce, Guacamole, Bacon, Tomato) should be discriminated against by those who serve the public.
 

cheri1122

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I don't think a response to disrespect "validates and dignifies it", at least not if done properly, but sometimes, no response may be the right one. Usually, though, I tend to go with the "all that is necessary for evil to survive is for good men to do nothing" school of thought.
What I cannot agree with is that refusal to bake a cake or do one's job when the customer is [or is presumed to be] gay is in any way a practice of religion, or that requiring one to do their job is impeding their practice of religion. I guess that hinges on what the "practice of religion" actually means, but I don't think it means the freedom to publicly disrespect and/or humiliate people without provocation. I think the original intent was to assure the freedom to attend worship, as the colonists had some experience with being unable to do so in England. They simply didn't want to risk a 'national religion' that outlawed all others. The right to worship is protected, but the right to impose religious beliefs is not, IMO.
 

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The original intent is pretty clear, one, no establishment of an official religion, and two, no interfering with the free exercise of religion.

Baking a cake, or not baking it, does not impose any belief into anyone. And, the right to worship is only a small part of what constitutes "the free exercise" of religion. Religion doesn't begin and end with attending a worship service.
 

cheri1122

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That's exactly right, and the provision of a service to the general public is not part of exercising one's religion. Nor is the imposition of religious beliefs on others, which is where the line is drawn. It's ok to believe homosexuality is a sin, it's not ok to refuse to serve them when it is part of one's job.
Religion is not the foundation of law, for laws predate religion. People have always had a general consensus on what's right and what's wrong, which law simply makes uniform, and attaches penalties for violations. That would exist regardless of any religious influence, because it's an inherent part of human nature. As is the need to know "Why?" and religion is an age old endeavor to answer those questions. That most of the answers were wrong doesn't seem to matter to those who believe, [or to those who continue to proclaim those answers], but it matters to those who do not believe. Religious authorities have a problem admitting error, and they haven't changed much since Galileo.
 

LDB

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Actually religion predates everything for those who are devout since nothing can predate creation and God and religion were a part of that. For the devout being forced to bake the cake or prepare the flowers is no different than being forced to steal from someone or assault someone or commit some other crime against someone. It is doing what is wrong. It is no different in their world than telling a woman she can't have an abortion in your world.
 

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That's exactly right, and the provision of a service to the general public is not part of exercising one's religion. Nor is the imposition of religious beliefs on others, which is where the line is drawn. It's ok to believe homosexuality is a sin, it's not ok to refuse to serve them when it is part of one's job.
No, it's not OK to refuse service to someone when it's part of service to the public. I don't think anyone, least of all me, is suggesting such a thing. If you own a bakery shop and someone, say, a gay someone, walks in and wants to buy a dozen donuts or buy a cake, you sell them whatever they want. If they have a special request, a commissioned work, you shouldn't be forced to comply with that request if it contradicts your morals. What if you're asked to bake a cake with a pornographic image on it? What about a cake that says, "The KKK is A-OK" Would you bake that cake? What if they wanted you to bake a cake that said, "Support Gay Marriage"?

The latter one is an actual case. If you're forced to put something on a cake with which you don't agree, now you're being compelled to speak, which is the opposite of freedom of speech. You're no longer a passive, disinterested observer, but a participant in a political argument. If someone wants you to bake a wedding cake, and you make wedding cakes for a living, then you should make them a wedding cake. But unless you deliver all wedding cakes personally, you shouldn't be forced to make and deliver that particular cake if you don't want to. If someone wants to buy any cake, or a dozen donuts, or rent a room in a B&B, you're not being asked to take sides in an argument, you're a passive observer providing a service.

The "Support Gay Marriage" printed on a cake is actually a case in Northern Ireland. Happened last month. The court ruled that the Christian bakery discriminated on the basis of sexuality. This puts the state in direct opposition with religious faith, not to mention the compelling someone to speak. Ironically, a month earlier the Northern Ireland Assembly (don't confuse Northern Ireland with Ireland, they are very different places) voted against legalizing gay marriage. So what they have in Northern Ireland is a situation where the court has ruled that refusing to write a pro gay marriage slogan on a cake is discrimination, despite the fact that the slogan promotes something illegal. Lost in it all is the freedom of speech and freedom of conscience.

As an independent contractor, you can pick and choose which loads you deliver. People who do contract work for catering events, photographing events, they should be able to do the same. Would you pick up and deliver a load of T-shirts with "Free Jerry!" printed on them to the Free Jerry Sandusky Foundation? I wouldn't.

Religion is not the foundation of law, for laws predate religion.
I never said religion was the foundation for our laws.I said religion provides a structure for morality and behavior, and our laws are based on the same morals and standards of behavior.

Laws don't necessarily predate religion, as religion and laws generally arose together. What predates religion (and laws) is morality.

People have always had a general consensus on what's right and what's wrong, which law simply makes uniform, and attaches penalties for violations. That would exist regardless of any religious influence, because it's an inherent part of human nature.
Correct. If you notice, morality is remarkably consistent across all religions and all societies. From an evolutionary perspective, that means human morality is very old, certainly old enough to predate any religion that exists today. Listening to religious people, you'll hear how people need religion's instructions, or else we'd be morally clueless. God comes first, then God's Law comes to humanity, and only then can people be good. But that's simply a load of crap. People have been good, and bad, and have had morality since long before someone invented the concept of God's Law.

We are a highly social species, and always have been, in order to survive as a species, and we've been using social structures like monogamy, family, clan, and tribe. Our ancestors were using these structures at least 500,000 years ago. If you woke up tomorrow and found yourself suddenly in Indonesia about 15,000 years ago, or even in Ethiopia 150,000 years ago, you would still be able to easily figure out what is going on. The basic social roles, responsibilities, and civil rules would seem somewhat familiar to you, and you'd fit in pretty fast (assuming, of course, they don't kill you and eat you because your'e white).

As is the need to know "Why?" and religion is an age old endeavor to answer those questions.
Well, not really. Religion is more of an age old endeavor to control people than it is to answer questions. That's how and why religion and laws came about more or less in tandem with each other.
 
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Turtle

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Actually religion predates everything for those who are devout since nothing can predate creation and God and religion were a part of that.
Religion and God are not the same. Even allowing that God was there from the beginning, or even before the beginning, religion was not. Religion is essentially the rules for the ways people worship, people adhering to a particular set of beliefs and practices. Anthropological and archaeological evidence suggests the first emergence of religion was 50,000 years ago with the Neanderthals. They were the first to bury their dead, and did so in ritualistic manner.
 

Windsor

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Everyone has made valid points. I'll save me questions for when Jesus comes back. We can just ask him for the answers. I'm sure there will be some kind of press conference or a Q&A on Facebook or Twitter. It will be sponsored by the Nestlé corporation. They'll be selling bottles of holy water.
 

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Everyone has made valid points. I'll save my questions for when Jesus comes back. We can just ask him for the answers. I'm sure there will be some kind of press conference or a Q&A on Facebook or Twitter. It will be sponsored by the Nestlé corporation. They'll be selling bottles of holy water.
 

cheri1122

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I was going to say that religion is about controlling people, but figured that saying it's an attempt to answer age old questions is less offensive - in the end, it's the same result, though.
I cannot agree that putting whatever a customer requests on a cake [except for that which is illegal, like porn] is speech as it applies to the person decorating the cake. It's not their speech, it's just their job to put it on the cake. When an actor recites lines, it's not their words, they're just doing a job - doesn't mean they agree with the words.
People whose idea of "moral" differs from the majority have long been wont to impose their beliefs on everyone [to validate them], as they did with Prohibition. Even back to the Puritans, who didn't have much success either - at least, not for long. [But I still can't buy alcohol on a Sunday, for crying out loud!]
You know what it reminds me of, reading the reasons against gay marriage? The movie 'Reefer Madness'. :wideyed:
 

LDB

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Actors aren't forced to say things against their will. They just don't accept the role. There's no point in going any farther as it's hopeless.
 

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Actors aren't forced to say things against their will. They just don't accept the role.
People aren't forced to start businesses where they required to serve the general public ... they can always elect to go into some profession where they don't place themselves in that situation.

There's no point in going any farther as it's hopeless.
In your case quite possibly true ....
 
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Yeah, as far as I know, the state doesn't compel actors to say lines, any more than they prohibit them from saying lines. Acting is, literally, artistic expression.

How about this scenario...

A gay baker is asked to bake a cake, but instead of a generic cake to serve the general public, the customer wants the cake to be decorated with two men holding hands, and a circle with a line drawn through it over the image of the two men. Can the baker refuse on the grounds that the message is "discriminatory and hateful"? Should a gay baker who supports gay marriage be compelled to produce an anti-gay marriage cake?

It's not a case of serving the public, a public accommodation or a genetic product, it's a case of specific artistic expression.
 
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I seriously can't rap my head around the fact that in 2015 there is still people who actually think that's it's ok to not serve someone because of the sexual orientation, because it's not ok. Just like it's not ok to choose to not serve a person of color. The same type of people that believe it's ok are the same ones who thought it was ok to burn woman alive if they thought they were witches so it shouldn't surprise me. Just a different century. The human race since are beginning has always been progressive, you can't stop it. You may try and slow it down but it can't be stopped. Every generation wants to freeze time somehow and keep things the way they remember them best or how there beliefs say things should be. I do understand that and that's ok to I guess, it's just not realistic at all. Its not your world or my world, its everyones wprld so i choose to just be more tolerate and accepting of the changes and that works for me. In 10 or 20 yrs no one will care much about this topic any longer. There will be new topics to debate.
 

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I seriously can't rap my head around the fact that in 2015 there is still people who actually think that's it's ok to not serve someone because of the sexual orientation, because it's not ok.
They're aren't many people who believe that. Some, sure, but not many. It's not a question of serving them, it's a question of whether or not the state should compel someone to endorse, be complicit in, or participate in the expression of a political or moral message.

So you think the gay baker should be compelled to bake a cake with an anti-gay marriage message on it? Why or why not?
 

paullud

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I seriously can't rap my head around the fact that in 2015 there is still people who actually think that's it's ok to not serve someone because of the sexual orientation, because it's not ok. Just like it's not ok to choose to not serve a person of color.

I still can't wrap my head around the fact that people don't understand that it's not refusing service to gay people just for being gay. No matter how many times the issue is explained that the question revolves around the the act of the marriage people keep trying to act like it's just a denial of service to all gays just because. The same baker that won't make the cake for the gay wedding will bake a cake for the gay person's birthday. It's not the same as denying a person service based on skin color but the propagandists are trying to portray it as such, don't fall for it.
 
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