Sorry, but that's lame. Whenever people call you on something, you immediately try and turn it around on them. It's a classic troll tactic, and it rarely works. You did it (or tried) to OVM, Diva, Layout, and now me in this thread alone. It's amazing how things can go smoothly, right up until the point you have a response directed to an individual which contains the word "you" in it. If you weren't constantly trolling for confrontation, and paid more attention to the issues, you wouldn't look so lame. It gets particularly bad when you try and rewrite current history, rewriting what you and others have written in the same thread to mean something different. You do that a lot.Once again, you have made a thread soooo convoluted it is no longer about the issue that was originally posted and have made it about you and I. Nice job moderatoring
You started all of this with your hypothetical question, didn't like Layout's answer, and then proceeded to try and pigeonhole him into a specific answer with the "We'll put you down for a vote for Ms. Palin then." There was no need to do that at all. By doing so, you took a hypothetical and made it personal about Layout and his answer. You also decided to take it upon yourself to speak for the entire general audience within the Soapbox, and then later on clarified "we" to mean precisely that.
Then Diva answered Layout's question of "who is we?" with a funny comment that didn't mention you by name at all, but you took exception to it and whined about being disrespected. Well, here's a news flash for you, you've long ago burned all your bridges to respect, and you have some serious rebuilding to do before you get any of it back. Either get building, or get used to it.
Diva responded with "Respect is not given....it's earned," and you didn't like that, either, and tried to turn that one back on her, as well: "awwww......that old line of thinking, it actually says a lot about you." Well, no it doesn't, but there's that "you" again in a trolling confrontation. Initial civil respect is given, until someone shows they don't deserve it, which you have done over time, so if you want respect you'll have to earn it. That says more about you than about anyone who says it.
Then you have the gall to post, "I have always tried to go with; respect should always be given, but can be taken away after you have first shown it. Or, first you must give respect, to get it back. But hey, that's just me." But everyone in here knows better. It's massively hypocritical to the point of being hysterically funny.
Then we have OVM's comment that, "Ya know it gets old reading something from a person who doesn't contribute to the rest of the forum in any way..." which is true. Professional soapboxers tend to wear out their welcome, and it does get old reading posts from someone who doesn't contribute anything of substance to the community at large, and instead spends all their time trolling personalities and being confrontational.
Yes, let's.Let's do this, lets go back to OVM's comments:
He quoted you, and made a comment about it. It was a general comment, and he didn't mention Obama even once.The position alone doesn't demand respect from the peasants....a leader should give respect to the people who put him in that position....he has to EARN the respect by his deeds...and obvious by this audience here he has not done so....maybe in your circles...but that is just my opinion...
What about it, exactly, makes it obvious he was talking about the president. "A leader" can be any number of leaders, elected or otherwise. And if it is so obvious, why did you ask, "What position? And who are you speaking of? Myself, Diesel or Obama?"Yes Turtle, he was obviously speaking of the President, but in the context and the flow of the thread it had nothing to do with Diesel or myself, which I'm still trying to figure out why he brought up Obama earning or giving respect?
Then you said, "How did I know this was going to become about Obama." Well, gee, you're the one who came up with the "Palin or Obama" hypothetical, so since you made it about Obama, and despite having to ask that question, with it so obviously being about Obama, it shouldn't come as a surprise that it became about Obama.
Layout pointed out the equally obvious fact that you don't fit into the "we" expediting community very well, and you tried to turn that back on him, toooo. "What's the matter? Your wittle feewings been hurt?" Now look who's widdle feewings got hurt.
And now you try to turn it back on me. I don't consider you an opponent, worthy or otherwise. I consider you a professional soapboxer to be, at least for now, tolerated, until you've completely worn out your welcome by the community at large. It's an age-old story not unlike the old westerns were every town has the sheep herders being terrorized by the cattle ranchers, the local sheriff takes his orders from the cattle baron, the railroad is coming through, school is taught by a pretty but somehow asexual schoolmarm, the newspaper is run by an idealist who sold everything to buy his press, and the saloon hussy is a prostitute with a heart of gold who never actually has sex with anyone. Those stories, like professional soapboxers, are predictable, and always end the same way.Look, I get it, you have a hard on for me, for whatever reason you do, jeolousy, you look at me as a worthy opponent, what ever game your playing it is only making you look bad.
Trying to make it about me still isn't working. I'm not here for your approval.Apparently so, and another fine example of a moderator not doing their job or setting a good example.
I'm sorry if I'm cramping your style, but one, don't tell me what to do, and two, it's a public forum. If you don't want people encroaching on your private conversations, then don't have them in public.Then keep your arrogant comments and your nose out of other peoples conversations. You know, moderate.
I just with you'd quite being hypocritical and quit whining. It would be very easy to do if you could stick to the issue and not to the posters.I'm not sure why you think by pointing out an obvious double standard is whining? I just wish you'd stop whining about me pointing out the double standards that you are perpetuating.
No, you already explained precisely what "we" meant. Too late to change that now. And yes, you asked the question, and there was nothing wrong with asking it. But you didn't like where the answers went, so you took it where you wanted it to go. You do that a lot, and then whine when called on it. Stop that.Turtle you can try and twist my words and try and tell me what I meant to say all you want. I was using it as a generality and you know it. "We" is one or more persons including the writer, since greg started the conversation about Obama or McCain, I simply asked the question, since the thread WAS about Palin: Obama or Palin?
You really think I'm coming to the rescue of those I feel sorry for or feel they can't stick up for themselves? That's a good one. If you don't like the way I moderate, well, good. That means I'm doing it right.It was, until you came in and muddied up the thread. Seriously, just moderate and stop going to the rescue to those that you feel sorry for or feel that they can't stick up for themselves.
Incorrect.You have twisted yourself into a pretzel so badly you don't even know why or what you are responding to anymore.
Whining about me being a moderator every time I call you on something or disagree with you will not change anything.You can call it anything you like turtle. It's funny that someone can point out an obvious personal attack and it's called whining. Then the moderator(that would be you) whines about the "so called" whiner, whining. Then the moderators(that would be you) whines about how people whine about the moderators(that would be you).
Yet you cannot keep from bring it up ad nauseum. What's up with that?Chaps my butt?? I could care less if you are a moderator or not...
I'm doing my job. If I'm not doing it to your satisfaction, well, good.just do your job and moderate and maybe, just maybe set an example for everyone.
Sorry, wrong on both counts.It just "Chaps your butt"<sarcasm off> that you have to step in and defend the indefensible.
Oh that hurt. Seriously. What's next, you gonna stick your tongue out at me?Sell out.