Hundreds and thousands of years ago there were same sex marriages or unions...so tradition smadition...ancient Rome, Mesopotamia and Egypt accepted same sex unions, the Native Americans were also much more accepting of homosexuality.
Citing exceptions to the normal does not invalidate the normal. Sorry. That's a logical fallacy in the extreme. There have been a few same-sex legal unions throughout history, but they have never been, at any time in history, the commonplace, much less the preponderance of unions. Acceptance or tolerance of same-sex unions have varied over the millennia with both time and cultures, but they have always been the exception to the rule - including with the majority of Native American tribes (don't believe everything you read on the Internet).
It's only with the rise of Christianity that homosexuality has become so taboo...actually even early Christianity was not so uptight about it!!
One doesn't have to be a Christian, or believe in God or the Bible to know that homosexuality makes a very weak case for the propagation and survival of the species, and is thus not normal by any stretch of anyone's imagination.
One of the weakest and silliest arguments against homosexuality is "because the Bible says so." It's absurd, because it assumes and literally
demands that everyone believe in the same Bible in the same way. How deeply one believes in the Bible is irrelevant, it's still an absurd argument. Homosexuality wasn't embraced by mankind at large even
before Christianity was invented, so using Christianity as the anvil to beat someone into submission is pointlessly absurd.
Equally absurd is saying, "I wanna be able to marry whoever I want," because that's nothing more than saying, "I want it, and I want it very, very badly, therefore I should have it."
Absurdly adolescent is the kindest thing I can say about that.
Out of all the lesbians and gays I know not one has said we won't accept civil unions, etc...all they want is to have the same rights as other spouses and to be left alone to live their life. So idk who "they" are or what their agenda is but they do represent the homosexuals!
You should probably talk to a few other homosexuals, then. Going back to the 70s and 80s there is a documented history where gays decided to flat out refuse the offer of civil unions. And that's been the Official Homo Stance ever since. They want the "M" word, nothing less will suffice. That's why they're calling it "equal marriage" and not civil union.