Is gaiety and gotry the same thing?
No, the "Gaiety" was a burlesque theater in Detroit. gotry has something to do with smoking cigarettes in England, or a bundle of sticks.
Is gaiety and gotry the same thing?
"They deserve to as happy or as miserable as straight couples...."
They may, but it is not the business of the federal government to codify it. That is strictly a state issue.
As long as states couldn't deny wills, rights of survivorship, health care, etc to them because their state doesn't allow homosexual unions...that's why it's become such a national issue. A straight couple can get married in any state or country and no state says you're not married in our state!
So what? Go to a lawyer, make up a legal contract and MOST of that would be covered. Health care is not an issue, it is an individual's responsibility. It is a "national issue" mainly because people like to cause problems rather than looking for solutions.
I would bet you dollars to doughnuts that IF they were to make "legal" homosexual unions, called "civil unions", that carried the same "rights" as a marriage, that a very large number of people would STILL be screaming to make legal "same sex marriage". For many, it is nothing more than the act of being in someone's face that this is all about, NOT about a few, rather easily fixed, legal issues.
So what?? Why should gay couple have to go through extra steps to get something straight couples already get?? There tax paying citizens just like everybody else...there not 2nd class citizens as everybody treats them..
If you're married your spouse can be under your insurance...it's not just an individuals issue. And personally I believe if the state government is handing out certificates then they all should be civil unions. Then everyone arguing marriage is a religious issue are happy...dilemma solved! Heck then the greedy little tax free churches can make even more money bc they can offer at an added price a nifty little marriage cert!
So you think hundreds if not thousands of years of tradition and legal precedent should be altered to accommodate the special wants of a small minority of the population? Interesting.And personally I believe if the state government is handing out certificates then they all should be civil unions. Then everyone arguing marriage is a religious issue are happy...dilemma solved!
Let them have civil unions or get married. The only objection I would have is if they tried to force a non believing church to marry them. Like all factions of a group, there will be a few that demand that. Couldn't support that line of thinking.
That is true that many just want "the marriage" to slap religion.
If not, civil unions would suffice.
Hundreds and thousands of years ago there were same sex marriages or unions...so tradition smadition...ancient Rome, Mesopotamia and Egypt accepted same sex unions, the Native Americans were also much more accepting of homosexuality. It's only with the rise of Christianity that homosexuality has become so taboo...actually even early Christianity was not so uptight about it!! And the only reason Christianity is one of the most popular religions is because they killed off those who wouldn't submit...it was a convert or die attitude...so no I really don't care to continue to let them reign.
Oh I agree the killing in the name of religion is not strictly a Christian thing...almost every religion has blood on it's hands. But idc what religion it is, they don't get to make the rules here.
Also...to say pagan is broad generalization. Which pagans? Wiccan (note wiccans were not around yet), Celts, Norse, Stregan...it's a broad umbrella term that covers some extremely different religions.
That's the problem. The supporters are often radical, in your face types who are not willing to accept sensible solutions, only the most radical option possible.