Nope, not my job......no need to even enter into a discussion about it with them. Why would I discourage a family member from taking some of "my" hard earned tax dollars and save just that much more for strangers to do the same? If the government is giving my money away ANYWAY....why shouldn't some of that money go to my family? (For the record, I don't know anyone that's used this program)
It would be extremely hard to turn a nose up at 4,500 cash...no matter where it come from and it made your life a little easier..