Just thought I'd add this little tidbit, since so many people apparently do not know about it. The Golden Rule is:
"Do unto others as you would have others do unto you."
It is not, "Do unto others as others have done unto you," nor is it, "Do unto others before others do unto you," it's "Do unto others as you would have others do unto you."
In other words, treat people the way you want to be treated.
Those who do not fully understand and believe in the Golden Rule cannot claim with any validity or credibility to be a Christian. I'm sorry to be the bearer of such bad news, but you just can't. The entire New Testament is based on the Golden Rule. Half of the Ten Commandments are directly based on the Golden Rule. You cannot ignore the Golden Rule for revenge, or rationalize ignoring it because the other guy is really, really bad, and still claim to be a Christian. You either believe in Jesus and his teachings, or you don't. You either believe in the Golden Rule or you don't.
I cannot tell you how disheartening it is of those who profess to be Christians while at the same time so easily dismissing Christ's own words commanding the Golden Rule, the very foundation on which Christ lived his life. It's not merely run-o-the-mill hypocrisy, it goes way beyond that. It's an evil hypocrisy. There's a reason that the Golden Rule exists in every virtually religion and every ethical tradition, it's because the Golden Rule is also the foundation for basic human kindness and all things good.
"Do unto others as you would have others do unto you."
It is not, "Do unto others as others have done unto you," nor is it, "Do unto others before others do unto you," it's "Do unto others as you would have others do unto you."
In other words, treat people the way you want to be treated.
Those who do not fully understand and believe in the Golden Rule cannot claim with any validity or credibility to be a Christian. I'm sorry to be the bearer of such bad news, but you just can't. The entire New Testament is based on the Golden Rule. Half of the Ten Commandments are directly based on the Golden Rule. You cannot ignore the Golden Rule for revenge, or rationalize ignoring it because the other guy is really, really bad, and still claim to be a Christian. You either believe in Jesus and his teachings, or you don't. You either believe in the Golden Rule or you don't.
I cannot tell you how disheartening it is of those who profess to be Christians while at the same time so easily dismissing Christ's own words commanding the Golden Rule, the very foundation on which Christ lived his life. It's not merely run-o-the-mill hypocrisy, it goes way beyond that. It's an evil hypocrisy. There's a reason that the Golden Rule exists in every virtually religion and every ethical tradition, it's because the Golden Rule is also the foundation for basic human kindness and all things good.