NO, I did MY part. Now it is my responsibility to spoil my granddaughter, nieces and nephew (when he gets back from Germany) THAT is the circle of life. (most are now grand nieces and nephews. I am at the age where I TEACH them based on my life experience and wisdom. I have neither the energy, or the will to take on the role of parent. Been there, did that, did it right. I expect EVERYONE else to do the same.
I WILL, if needed, raise my granddaughter or nieces and nephews, NO others. They are the responsibility of those to made them. Would not pay for them either if I were not FORCED too do so. By government and those who support those programs, INCLUDING FORCING me to pay for abortions, when it comes to that. Making ME cover OTHERS responsibility can ONLY be done by FORCE!
Not big money? BILLIONS are spent on it. Sounds like big money to me!