Well at least I don't spend more than 90% of my time in the soapbox. actually that 90% is a little low.
..... here's my question DD .......
who (frickin') cares ?
You seem fairly fixated on this thing about other folks and what they do with/where they spend their time on EO ........
Sort of reminds me of this woman I used to work with at auto parts distributor down in Canton .....
Seems she had some neighbors, who, for some relatively short period of time (several weeks in a row) put out an uncharacteristically large amount of trash for the garbage men to pick up ....
This woman was utterly fascinated by this .....
the mystery of it all .... what could they be putting out their on the curb ? .... where did it come from ? ...... how did they get all that stuff into their house ? (.... without her seeing it go in of course [she was very prone to .... ahhh .....
"observing" her neighbors apparently]) ......
what could be in those trashcans ? ..... ad infinitum ....
She repeatedly kept bringing the subject up with co-workers, several times per day, attempting to solicit their thoughts and ideas as to what it could be ..... and could literally talk about nothing else for over a month .... it became a standing joke around the office ....
My advice:
If you're gonna fixate, find another matter of more interest to the local population to fixate on .....