I come from generations of military, their accolades are their own. I did not serve because I was 4F, but I tried. My son served and my son in law still is. I know first hand what they go through, and have had to financially support both of them just so that they could eek out a meager existence. I, too am one of those people that thanks a vet when I recognize them as such, and have had nothing but a positive response. I assure you, it is heartfelt, if it is not accepted as such and you feel that it is hollow, I will cease to do so. I was born in Japan and grew up on military bases all over the place and currently work as a contractor doing back ground investigations. I see the good and the bad. The employment situation is dismal at best, but that is for everybody, not just vets. I do see vets get jobs that a civilian would have to be degreed to be acceptable for, and the vet has not taken advantage of his educational opportunities. I have also seen the camaraderie from vets to vets in the work place. Attitude is everything, if you think you are getting a raw deal, you probably are. You can choose to dwell on it or move on. Some are better at that than others. My opinion, with no study to substantiate it, is that older vets are dealing with multiple deployments, stop losses, and not being able to maintain or pay for their civilian lifestyle absent their civilian income and are losing everything. Not all companies may your wages while you are gone, or pay the difference, they may want to, but the economy will not let them. This stress, that of responsibility is different when you are older and have a family and mortgage to take care of, then if you are a single soldier just out on your own. My own son has issues, he gets frustrated because he cannot explain them, we are frustrated because we cannot help him, some days he is fine and others he is someone you don't want to be around. I don't know the answers, but you can't blame the citizens that voted in our current President, 2 X, because many, many of them were military. The bumper stickers on cars leaving a base will tell you who they voted for.
Scott