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>>To the extent that "All men are created equal" I take your
>>meaning. No person is better than anyone else. But within
>>the trucking industry, the White Glove drivers I know are
>>anything but "poor slobs". Because they take their jobs
>>seriously, and because they do it well, they command the
>>highest incomes in the expediting industry.
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>when i first started reading your post, i thought okay here
>is someone else that gets it. well after the first two
>sentences i could see that you are one of those white
>glovers that have that "elitest" complex. i have met up with
>several of your kind on the road, and let me tell you it was
>not an experience that i would want to repeat.
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>why does the fact that you provide extra services (for wich
>you are compensated)and that you have extra equipment on
>your truck to accomplish those extra services make you think
>that you are better than anyone else?
Extra services and equipment do not make us (my wife and I, speaking for ourselves alone here) feel we are better than anyone else. We provide them with great pride so the SHIPPERS and CONSIGNEES will believe we are better than everyone else. We want them to choose our services above all others and pay the higest price we can get. We believe ourselves worthy of the price and are willing to do what it takes to earn it.
The notion that posessing extra equipment makes one person better than another is ridiculous. If I own 10 ratchet straps and you own 12, does that make you a better person? If I own a $250,000 house and you own a $300,000 one, does that make you better? If you have seven years of college and law school under your belt and I only have a high school diploma, does that make you a better person?
The good-better-best conversation based on posessions or accomplishments is a fool's errand. No matter what you have, someone always has more. Comparing your posessions and accomplishments to others' or others' to your own in human worth terms is a certain path to unhappiness and frustration.
Being a good person is different than being a good football player, nurse, or truck driver. You don't have to have a title, trophy, or high-profile career to feel good about yourself. If you believe otherwise, you are living life from the outside in. Happiness comes from living life from the inside out.