The really interesting thing (to me) is the apparent lack of certainty that is seemingly contained in the statement:
"But I must have gone wrong somewhere."
It's almost as though the parent making the statement has
SOME DOUBT.
You'd think she'd seen enough on tv and movies of how the party always goes bad to know better.
My take would be slightly different .... I would think the relationship between a child and a parent ought be of a high enough quality, and contain enough of a level of trust and honesty, and have such a high level of open communication between the parties involved that that which the parent instills in the child would forego such a result.
It seems to me that depending on "
the tv and the movies" to educate one's children isn't much of a way to deliver a quality result. One merely has to consider all the things which are portrayed on TV which are
utterly incorrect and false to come to the conclusion that using it as an
"authority" for anything is fraught with much peril.
Hiring the "one-eyed monster" to be your nanny, while a relatively low-cost solution initially, might be quite expensive in the long term.