Well, a lot of information has been exchanged via PM's, and for anyone else coming down this road next, here's what I decided to do.
The tech sheets mentioned earlier by Hino123 are very easy to follow. If not for needing DX software this isn't a hard job. Hino123 added that with all the reseal jobs he's done, only 1 needed to have the fuel pressure reset. GreasyT often resets the ones he does, but I decided to take a chance and do the job myself. If the fuel pressure turned out good, I'd know soon enough if it leaks. But they've never had a reseal leak. Also, there were no codes to indicate any fuel or air problem with the atomizer.
I bought the cup seal and o-ring for about $20 at the local Hino dealership, and picked up a tube of silicone grease at home depot. I removed the rear of the right fender though it turns out it wasn't necessary, but it did allow me to see a little better. I marked and removed the ignitor wires and took out the exhaust sensor with a 17 mm open end wrench. I had to unplug it since the wires turned while I unscrewed it. Then I used a 10 mm socket on a 1/4" drive to take out the frame side ignitor bolt. This allows it to be tipped up to loosen and remove the opposite bolt, which I found very hard to get a wrench on.
The 4 pin-in-head T-27 torx bolts on the atomizer were next and the cover came out easily. Loosen the air valve with a 9/16" wrench and slightly turn it, then MARK THE FUEL REGULATOR with a paint pen so you'll know where it goes back in without overtightening. Use a 1-1/16" socket and remove the fuel regulator. Mine came out in 3 1/2 turns. It also had a spot where it was a little hard to turn unscrewing, but it came right out.
The o-ring was stuck in the atomizer but it came out easily with a piece of mig wire bent into a hook ( I couldn't find a pick ). The cup seal was toast. It was dry and brittle. When I tried to roll it off the piston the outer part of the cup just tore off. Then the remainder wouldn't stretch to remove it, it just snapped. I lubed the new one and pushed it on easily, and lubed the piston and put it back in the regulator. Some lube on the o-ring and put it on the regulator and it was time to reinstall.
The regulator had the same sticky part when it screwed in as when I removed it, so I triple checked the alignment to be sure I wasn't cross threading it. I carefully counted 3 1/2 turns and lined up the regulator with the paint marks. Rotated the air valve back to its original position (it stops when it gets to the right place and you can't turn it any further) and tightened the bolt. Then reinstalled the atomizer cover being sure to line up the wiring harness seal with the notch in the front of the cover. Next, the far bolt on the ignitor which I had to tip back to barely get a 10mm 12 point open end wrench on it. Then when I tipped it down to insert the near bolt it helped tighten the far bolt a little more so it was snug. Put in the near bolt and attached the ignitor wires. Reinstalled the exhaust sensor and plugged it in and it was ready to fire up. I started the truck and ran it for about 20 minutes and didn't have any leaks. I put the rear fender back on and drove it off and on all afternoon, everything is still dry.
Many thanks to GreasyT and Hino123 for their vast knowledge and willingness to access and read the records for my truck. The whole job took me 3 hours (spent a lot of time looking for tools, etc.) and 2 days later there are no codes and no leaks. So rather than $3000 plus labor I spent $20 and 3 hours. The truck has 4500 miles so I think age is more of a factor in these leaking than use, but I'm real happy with this approach to solving my leaky atomizer.