What gives?

layoutshooter

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What's up with this? The FATHER of a problem boy REQUESTS help for a wayward son? REQUESTS? He asked "officials" for help? I THOUGH getting help was the RESPONSIBILITY of the PARENTS, not the "officials.

To top it off, an OFFICIAL, said that IF he saw the father spank his kid, he would arrest the father.

No wonder we have problems in this country.



[h=1]Stowaway's dad says requested help for problem son[/h]
MINNEAPOLIS (AP) — The father of a 9-year-old boy who evaded security to stow away on a flight from Minneapolis to Las Vegas told reporters Wednesday he's been frustrated in his efforts to get help for his troubled son.


The father spoke at a news conference on condition of anonymity to protect his son. Sobbing at times, he said his son had a history of misbehavior but officials had told him they couldn't help because his son hadn't done anything bad enough yet.


"I'm tired of people saying he's a minor, there's nothing we can do. There's something somebody can do," said the dad, wearing a hoodie and baseball cap pulled low to hide his face.


The boy took a light-rail train to the airport last Thursday and blended in with a family to get past security, slipped past a gate agent and took an empty seat on the Delta Air Lines flight. The flight crew turned him over to police in Las Vegas, where he was still being held Wednesday.


The father spoke at the office of MAD DADS, where the community group's president, V.J. Smith, said county child protection workers told him the boy will be returned to Minnesota and reunited with his family Friday, not kept in custody. Smith added that the county would "wrap some services around the family."


The father said this son had been suspended from school for fighting before he slipped away Wednesday by saying he was taking out the trash. He said he and the boy's mother presumed he then went to a friend's house. She called police the next day, after he didn't come home, and learned he had been arrested in Las Vegas.


"How would you let a 9-year-old child go through a security check without stopping and questioning him? How can that be?" he asked.


The father confirmed his son was the same 9-year-old who stole a delivery truck in Minneapolis and crashed it into a suburban Edina police squad car two days before stowing away. He choked up as he recalled discussing the incident with an officer who brought the boy home.


"I asked the officer, 'Please sir can you go upstairs with me, watch me whup his butt?' The officer told me, 'If I see you hit your son we're going to have to lock you up.' I said, 'Sir, what can I do? I've been asking for help, but there's no one that's helping me.' I'm in what you call double jeopardy," he said.







Stowaway's dad says requested help for problem son
 

LDB

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Giving a disciplinary spanking isn't the same as hitting a kid.
 

zorry

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Kids know they can drop a dime on parents. If a goofy cop shows up.....

You can't raise kids like we did.

My Mom had a thick leather belt. We didn't get hit often.
We probably made good decisions to avoid that belt .
 

layoutshooter

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Sounds like this kid is WAY beyond a spanking. Good chance he did not have enough of them when they might have done some good.

In ANY case, it is STILL the parents responsibility to get this kid what he needs, NOT the "officials" and NOT ours.
 

davekc

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Today children can't be touched. They must be sent to therapy.:rolleyes:
 

layoutshooter

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Oh....that is where "it takes a village" comes from. :eek:


Well, send THAT kid to THAT village and I can move into a RETIREMENT village with NO snot brat kids in it!

Better yet, I will just move out onto an island on Lake Erie and the heck with it all!:p
 

cranis

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Yes it is a parents responsibility, but if need help and ask for it CPS should at least give some advise,
S o what if the child get into some trouble than people will blame the parents, even tho they asked for help. ****ed if you do and ****ed if you don't.
 

layoutshooter

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Yes it is a parents responsibility, but if need help and ask for it CPS should at least give some advise,
S o what if the child get into some trouble than people will blame the parents, even tho they asked for help. ****ed if you do and ****ed if you don't.

Maybe it was the way it was written or the story was not complete. No where did I read that the parents had been to doctors etc. Just officials.

I know it can be tough, BUT, it is STILL 100% the responsibility of the parents and "government" or "officials" have no role. There are all kinds of resources out there WITHOUT going to or relying on government. CPS is NOT a good place to start.
 

davekc

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IF 7-11 sold guns they would be junk. Why would I then want to buy one there? :confused:

Because you get one of these.:cool:

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