Spending on war toys? You mean national defense spending which allows us to sleep peacefully at night. A national defense which spares us from fear of attack on the homeland. A national defense so strong that our enemies cannot harm us while we have the luxury of debating the opulent American welfare state. Cut welfare and pass the savings to the military in the form of a much deserved pay raise.
Sleep peacefully at night? Do those suffering from PTSD sleep peacefully at night? How about the amputees? The loved ones of those who didn't come home?
The cost is too high, period. And it didn't spare us on Sept 11. We are lucky, in a way, to have never been "occupied", but if we were, people wouldn't consider war a great endeavor, IMO. It's a stupid and barbaric [and ludicrously expensive!] way to solve problems, and should be a last resort, when ALL else fails.
There is nothing opulent about providing basic necessities of life for every citizen, [half of whom are children!] We don't need to deprive them to give a raise to those who work for their money, because there are a whole lot who don't at the other end of the income scale who 'shield' their money to keep from contributing to the country that contributed to them.