Beemer, I have had the pleasure of meeting exactly 2 people from this board face to face and neither of them were you or Col, so please don't think i am taking his side or yours here when i say that, your post seems pretty defensive.........
As col said, no where was your name in his post and it seemed that he was speaking generally and that his post was directed to me, at least the 1st sentence would indicate that.
Now , you can take this anyway you like. I know 1st hand that people can see things in the writings on the internet that just aren't there. The written word does not show the way we speak when we are face to face or when we simply enteract in person, there is no emotion in the written word, WE decide how someone is saying something, and we can be totally wrong. So with that said, I take no offense with your position that no one should get into this business based on your experiences, none of us do business the same way and none of us get the same results. Sure some will be in the same boat at times, but how long each is there is also different. You say you are doing all of the right things and it just ain't workin, others are slow, yet others aren't. Well Maybe it is all about attitude...
Again, I can only read your words here, but not too much has come across as positive but alot has been defensive and hostle....is that how you approach your business since it has slowed down?? You might not even realize it... but when we get stressed and things aren't going as we would have them, we can easily turn to the negative in all of our dealings with whatever it is we are stressed over....Business is bad, everything and everyone involved with is are just a bunch od PITA's....Not so buddy, not so...but when we are stressed, we can easily feel that way, we are all capable of doing it....
Things are slow for some, that is a fact, what are you doing to change it for yourself? I know just enough about this business at this point to get myself in trouble, so I have to rely on what I have learned as a business owner and the one thing that any business person needs is a positive attitude all the time and especially when we are dealing with other people. "Pizzing" off a few dispatchers isn't going to make life easy...being, well not nasty to the people you enteract with when you get to a customers place of business but maybe just "going through the motions", just being there , getting the freight, and getting out of there without being personable just might get a call to dispatch telling them not to send that grumpy guy back here...You might have been just fine as far as you were concerned, but you just didn't come across as a postive extention of the company that you drive for... that sure isn't going to make TPTB happy back at "P"...
In another thread someone bashed a recruiters post as "typical recruiter BS" to paraphase, because she spoke of positive attitude and such, well that should be coming from everyone that is involved in this business, without it no one makes it. No one wants anyone to bs them with a rosy blue sky "everything is great" bs but bring a negative attitude to the board is simply a extention of ours lives and how we are doing things at that moment. You can't tell me that you can post the defensive negative post here, then simply turn that off when you go about your day, hell my wife picks up on that from me in a heartbeat and I for the most part have a positive attitude, not always, no one does, but I make every effort to be, especially when I interact with others.
You advise directed to me was not to do this, I won't make any profit let alone pay the bills, well, while I respect your opinion based on your experiences, I guess being stupid of the in's and out's of this business is like the old saying, "ignorance is bliss", because while I have lost money in more then one business over the years, I WILL make money on this venture, i am sure I won't make a profit each month running back to back, but over the long haul and thats 18 -24 months for me, i'll do ok and go from there. You can do better then you are right now, everyone can... you are in control of alot of what happens to you...take a look and see where you can make changes for the positive to enhance your worth to the company and customers... I bet your wife and family could offer some advise, I know mine does on a regular basis....
Stress is a killer, in more then one way.........