Some aren't gifted with knack for writing or just type without thinking about whether the statement is an insult... and what does constitute an insult?
IE: That is a stupid idea?.....or....
you are stupid for thinking that way?
or as Brisco said the other day..." some of us are ignorant" Did he mean me?
Just yesterday someone said to me in a thread.." are you nuts?"
If i were an overly sensitive person I'd be looking for therapy for my hurt feelings.
Innocent banter, common phrases, teasing are entities unto themselves and are harmless.
It's when people out and out say things such as someone is an idiot for the situation they're in, has no business expediting, or money hungry wifey that can't afford her spa appointments...those things are uncalled for. Then the baiting, when someone doesn't want to publicly name the carrier out of respect for the EO reputation and associated drivers...the person is vilified. Called an overly sensitive exaggerating crybaby in so many words.
So then someone names the carrier.
And they are vilified. Called an overly sensitive crybaby in so many words...but if they DO name the carrier and offer proof to back up their claim, their thread gets locked down or removed.
****ed if you do, ****ed if you don't.
I guess the best thing is, for those of us with compassion, is to say nothing and when the next "best ever" carrier starts boasting on EO how well they take care of their people and pay so well, let people find out for themselves. Let's see their reaction when the contracted 100 cpm minimum always comes offered at 75 cpm...once "reminded" of the terms of the contract the cpm is raised...then one waits for the actual pay to come...
Giving warning and telling of personal experiences go nowhere out here.
One just risks being locked out or banned.
Some comraderie.
"Bruises fade and bones will mend-but a psyche can be ruined FOREVER" : LisaLouHoo, c. 2008