I know I should just stay out of this, since we're not with Panther, but well, this isn't in the Panther Forum..
Let me take a stab at this from my devil's advocate, not-personally-affected position of an outside perspective.
So Panther has 4 trucks in a given area. They also have way too many trucks than they need at this time. They want to spread the wealth as much as possible, to keep it fair, which is... only fair. They have an order they go in, whatever it is.. you're next on the list.. it just so happens, it's not a rose. But it's still at your rate. They offer it to you in good faith, being next on the list, as they are supposed to.. you freak out because it's a shortie with too much deadhead. You decline the opportunity. Thankfully they have 3 other trucks to try. One of them takes it.. perhaps they end up getting one of those cooked gooses as a result. You just don't know. Meanwhile, you can sit and complain about only getting 2 loads per month, while your fixed costs keep clicking away.
If Panther didn't have those other trucks to offer the load to, what then? Time is lost in posting the load, and dealing with an outside entity. Maybe they lose yet another customer over it.
Things are not normal right now. Everyone has to work together til it turns around. If you can't afford to do that, park your truck til it does turn around. Take yourself out of service. There's nothing worse to a carrier than booking a load when they have trucks available, only to find they really don't have trucks available.
It's not right, the freight should pay better, the deadhead should be covered, you should get good loads in return for doing bad ones, favors should be remembered, there should be more freight for the amount of trucks available. What can they do?
Seems one thing they can do is reduce the amount of available trucks. So they pick the ones who let them down 33% of the time, and stop giving them freight for awhile. In effect, they're being nice by not saying, 'goodbye', and instead, simply penalizing them, and rewarding the ones that say 'yes'.
Everyone has talked on here for ages about the fact you must have reserves for the downtimes. Now is such a time. Use your reserves to carry you through the dog loads in the hope of getting the goose loads as a result, or park your truck, or admit defeat. If you try, and you cooperate, and you use your reserves to the point you don't want to use any more, and it's still not working for you, basically that means it's game over. Reality bites.