We say we're willing to bite the bullet and stay out as long as three months at a time. But considering it would be tough to get loads near home, how realistic is it for us to think of staying out for three months when we've never done anything remotely close to this
I will say that staying out so long is ambitious, and not unheard of, Im just now researching the expediting business as you are, I have been an over the road driver for almost 20 years however, and have stayed out for as much as 7 months at a stretch before, so, that being said, I know a bit about being out long periods of time, heres a couple of things to concider before commiting yourself to such a long time out. -
The first thing your going to notice is, having to get dressed to go to the bathroom, get used to it, rain, shine, snow, your walking inside to answer the call of nature.
Second, laundry, do you have a washer and dryer? out here, you have a laundry-mat, its a small nuisance, but a real one.
Third, recreation, this is so important, most would say its a luxury, but luxury is having more than 8 square feet of living space, and there will be two of you, have some recreation, both when your sitting, and when your driving, get yourself an iPod if you can afford one, load it up with music, audiobooks, whatever you like, and get yourself a nice inexpensive dvd player, one with the lcd screen, and most important, go for a walk, get out of the truck as much as you can and just enjoy a park, a path, even a walk around the parking lot or a mall, anytime you can, get out of the truck and be active.
Fourth, like cooking? no more, get used to fast food, yes, restaraunts are good, but $20 a meal in a restaraunt, or $8 to $10 a meal fast food, the best option, if you have it, is a microwave and a cooler (12-volt type, not ice) and go grocery shopping, Hormel has a lot of good 90 sec. entrees, and other microwave foods, sandwich stuff, things like that, it can save you a lot, but dont think you'll live on truck food, variety will become essential.
The only other thing I will say here is, how do you get along on long road trips? Being stuck in a little box together, even with someone you love more than life itself, can be stressful, you may find yourselves a little more short tempered, and perhaps a bit more arguemenative, when that happens, and it almost always does, take a deep breath and count to 10 and ask yourself if its the truck thats driving you nuts, or your spouse.
I focused a lot on negatives here, it isnt all negative by any means, you will see some very cool, and very odd things out here, and there is nothing better than being able to share that with the person you love enough to live in the box with.
Just remember, you will get in each others way, and you'll also be glad your both there, be a little nicer to each other, and share the experiances, good and bad, and it will be the best thing you can do, and you will find after a few months, you know each other so much better than you could have ever imagined.
Good luck, and above all else, have fun.