As a single parent for many years(son Ode,daughter Autumn,good hippie names)I could not afford anything but public school.They were quite young when they came to live with me full time,5 and 3.Since I traveled a fair amount,I traded room and board with Stanford grad students(women)to fill in as Nannies and tutors while I was on the road.
It was not a traditonal home,but it was a loving and supportive home.My children had been home birthed,so my bond with them began the moment of their birth,not when the Doctors deemed it was OK for me see them(prior to allowing fathers in the delivery room).
Between myself and my various Nannies from Stanford,my kids got tutorial help and guiedence throughout their primary and junior high school years.No matter how tired I was,assisitng them in their studies(prior to computer days)seemed the only thing to do to ensure they would excell.For us,it worked.In my traditional home of the 50's and early sixties,I only wanted to ride motorcycles and party.I skipped college.My parents were good people,but did not know how to handle me.I was a handful.
My kids,through no fault of their own,grew up in an alternative home setting.I was far from perfect,but provided lots pf love,healthy meals and did the wash every other day.The rest fell into place.
Last Sunday,on CNN,my daughter was featured on a news piece about the Greeening of ski resorts in America.She is a renowned expert in her field,and well respected in the area of greenbelt conservation and old growth protection.My son is a wild life biologist specializing in water foul.He is also a wild life illustrator,contracted to Natural History museums around the country.
It's our job to educate our children,to be there for them and allow them to choose their own direction.Relying on the government will result in failure,and unending dollars spent debating the obvious.
Public school,along with parential assistance and support,does not always lead to certain failure.