I'm not going to comment on every idiotic and unprofessional comment in this thread, I'll just point to these little ditties from the Code of Conduct:
This Code of Conduct has been established to create a professional atmosphere in all of our forums.
The purpose of this forum is to provide a platform for the exchange of ideas and information. Occasionally, there will be conflicts that arise when people voice divergent opinions. Be courteous when disagreeing with others. It is possible to disagree without being insulting.
That means, in addition to Ragman's suggestion to relax a little, it also means don't be a dick. If you have a personal issue with someone, including what and how they post in the forums, that's what the Conversation feature is for. If you don't care to do that, then you have the ability to click on someone's avatar, then click the Ignore link, and you will never see any posts from that person again. If you don't care to do either of those, and insist on continuing to being rude, discourteous and unprofessional in the forums, we have ways to deal with that, too.
I do want to make special note that jujubeans is a well established and well respected member of this community. She is well established and respected in no small part because she has been here longer than most (including me) and is a very experienced expediter who happens to be retired from the road.
I should also note that Fastman is, well, he's established, anyway.