UPDATE, this week the dealer called me. FCA told them to replace my transmission. I got the van back on Thursday. It seems to run fine. Items i know have been changed in the 10 months it spent in the shop: TCM, Auctuator, Shifter, & the transmission itself. I have not been out on a run with it yet. I have driven about 350 miles so far. As soon as I can get work/a run I will know if it is solved for the moment. And yes you read that right 10 months in a row at the dealers, 3 different ones.