Well there McBuggy, i'm relieved to see SOMEONE gets it. Obsessive, is what it takes to succeed. Those that tink "doing your own thing" will simplify their lives are, dead wrong. If you "don't wanna" and, don't when the phone rings once in a while, then the phone WILL stop ringing. As an example, steada dreaming bout a vacation to Belize, you first have to dream bout, who is going to cover the freight while you are gone. And, if you can't surround yourself with good people that wanna, then, you are it. Period!