I've been on both sides as well. i'm just not an office guy but if I had too I could go back to dispatching. I'VE ALWAYS GONE WAY OUT OF MY WAY to be couterous & pleasant with the dispatchers becuase they do remember the nice ones. Now, this apporach has not worked with every dispatcher, some people are just miserable jerk offs & needed to be treated as such, or very close to it.
I keep it very simple,
Good Morning, (enter dispatcher name) this is so & so with a depature call.
go though the info.
Ok thank you, have a nice day.
& that's that keep ot nice simple, pleasant & professional.
But, yes. The 3 am calls need to stop, especially when i'm alreadly on a run for the morning & i'm trying to get my sleep. Even than I'm as nice as possible, alot of times I don't even answer the phone. I find they like to try & dispatch those daily Jamesburg NJ loads at that time that are usually difficult to cover.