RichM wrote,
>What I cannot let go by is this annimosity that A Team(AKA
>Phil) has torwards the Cowboyz posts. We have a Expediter
>that has a FAMILY that he likes to see once in a while and
>the man has done nothing to cause the type of replies that
>he is getting. So in the interests of decency Phil,why don't
>you back off for a while.
One of the problems of internet communications is the lack of body language and tone, which makes it easy to misinterpret a writer's meaning and intent. Rich, I'm afraid this is a case where you have done just that.
In case you missed my apology to cowboyz, my promise to go back and re-read his posts with an open mind, and my offer to help him do better as an expediter, you can read it at:
http://www.expeditersonline.com/dcforum/DCForumID1/4706.html#7
The questions I asked cowboyz above were not asked with animosity but with compassion. Cowboyz is clearly struggling to find his groove in this business and he is casting about for help. The questions I asked were to obtain additional information about his situation so I can better understand his circumstances and offer whatever coaching he may be open to receiving.
This man is driving a DR unit with FedEx. That is something I have a bit of experience in myself. It troubles me deeply to see him complaining about $1.15 per mile loads when Diane and I are doing much better in a similarly-equipped truck running with the same carrier. It strikes me that the problems reside less with FedEx than with cowboyz expectations, decision making process, and/or knowledge of the FedEx system.
Back off? I think not. Unless cowboyz wants me to give up on him, I'll continue to try to provide the help he is asking for here in the open forum. It would be better if we chatted in private, but cowboyz has not responded to that offer.
I'm not going to try to force anything on cowboyz that he does not want, but since he is rising up in a very public way, a public inquiry about his circumstances is not out of line; especially when the inquiry is well-intentioned and made in good faith, as mine was.