Well, if the presumptuous attitude , patronizing 'advice', and total hijacking of a thread to discuss (what else?) yourself (yes, you were asked, but should have begun a new thread, on the totally unrelated discussion, IMO) doesn't encourage new folks to jump right in, I don't know what would....
Unless, of course, they'd like to be analyzed, by "Dr Phil" (& if Jerry Springer can succeed, then clearly, there are some C R A Z Y folks out there)Myself, I believe I'd just keep my mouf shut, as so many others do.
I think that's a shame, though - they might have something of value to add, you know - if they weren't afraid of being treated like a child (and not a particularly bright child, at that).
