Cheri, The Church does not ask women to be submissive....anymore than man is to be submissive to the wife.p.
The Church might not, but the Bible sure does. So does the Quran, and the Torah, and every other major religious text. Have you not actually read the Bible?
From 8000 BC to 600 AD the role of women in different religions remained fairly minimal, varying only between communities, with society during this time being highly patriarchal and women were seen as subordinate to men. As various religions were invented, they all kept the status quo with regard to women being subservient (and slavery and a bunch of other societal issues, because you can't upset the apple cart tooo much and still expect people to hop on for the ride).
When Confucianism was invented, the Chinese moralists saw orderly, patriarchal families as the foundations for a stable society (sound familiar?). It's a system still in place. 200 years after Confucius died, Ban Zhao, a women, wrote a short but
seminal book breaking down the role and status of women under Confucianism, and in society in general. Christian women even today write the same sort of stuff.
Hinduism incorporated the same patriarchal views, where women were expected to direct affairs within their homes (cleaning, raising children, tending to husband, cooking) but no where else, and hey had no public authority, couldn't inherit property, and were not permitted to remarry after their husband's death.
Buddhism arose out of Hinduism, so the same patriarchal values were carried along.
Christianity, just like the other religions, continued to treat women in the same way they did before Christianity was invented or was spread there, subordinately. Today there are articles all over the Internet that tell women how and why they should be subservient to their man. Some of them laughingly try to rationalize it, in an attempt to reconcile Christianity and feminism, as no rational person can seriously argue that feminism and religiosity can coexist. If you claim to be a religious person, you are not a feminist, nor if you believe men and women are inherently equals can you claim to believe in the fundamental beliefs of any religion. There is no religion yet invented that presents men and women as exact equals in the manner of feminism.
As for who created what? Who's to say how God did these things? (given a belief that He did) and perhaps creation and science combined to create this mess we currently occupy. And why is it such a mess? Because there are those who wish to control everything, in world which does not belong to them alone.
It's probably a mess because they read in some book that everything was created just for them.
Science would have you believe that a handful of monkey's climbed to the top, and now posses the right to control everything. It's not just greed, it's also the power to be like God. I find it quite amusing, really.
The Bible tells you in plain language that you have dominion and control over the animals, and that plants are yours to do with as you will. And you blame attempts to control everything on monkeys? What is this religious obsession with monkeys? And with sex? Why are Christians so obsessed with monkeys and sex?