I'm sure that's exactly what Lawrence anticipated when you gave him your word you would apologize. I guess it's value is now known.
He should have seen it coming, based on the PM.
"Bruises fade and bones will mend-but a psyche can be ruined FOREVER" : LisaLouHoo, c. 2008
Lisa, you do realise what you have just admitted to right?
Sending a PM?
Honesty & integrity are everything, yours will always be viewed as suspect now.
That would be unfair, IMO, because we don't know what the PM said.
It would have been better for you, IMO, had you not said anything.
I don't understand why we can't just let this thing drop.
It had pretty much petered out, until LDB revived it with a snarky comment.
IMO, moderators need to try to douse the flames, not add to them.
There must be a lot of "tired fingers" from all of the pointing going on. Let this die, get passed it and be happy.
That's just silly. Beyond silly, in fact.
Cheri, ALL I was trying to do was END this.
Describing it as 'silly' is generally only going to make it worse, when those involved don't think so
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It is NOT a good thing. It should drop, let admin handle what they feel needs handled with whom ever is needed. It needs defused.
As I said before: it was a dead issue, until LDB added a comment that was out of bounds.
I am sorry you find a need to take this personal.
I just say what I think needs to be said: one moderator was out of bounds, another adds nothing helpful in defusing the situation by calling it silly, and stating he doesn't know what it's all about.
Moderators who exacerbate flareups don't solve issues, which is a primary component of the job.
Are members not allowed to comment on a moderator's posts?
NOTHING I said was aimed at ANY party or side of this.
Oh well, I can see this is a TOTAL waste of my time.
That's entirely up to you.
Drag it on as long as needed.
I would have locked it after the 1st post....it was more a statement and no comments were needed by letting it drag on, it just degraded to this nonsense........IMO
Trouble maker
She made her "statement" got it off her chest, had her say...any comments would do nothing but distract...if anyone didn't like me locking it...they could take it up with their union rep!...
Sounds like banter to me!
My house, my rules, don't let the door hit ya where the sun don't shine on the way out...
My house, my rules, don't let the door hit ya where the sun don't shine on the way out...