Some have faced those things, many have not.
Some women have been raped. I have not, but should I assume it can't & won't ever happen to me? Should I not object to sexual assault because I haven't personally been a victim?
Some have faced those things, many have not.
No you should not assume it won't ever happen to you, nor should you refrain from objecting to it because you haven't personally been a victim. By the same token, you should make yourself and every other woman a victim simply because it happens to a some women, which is exactly what you did with gays in Post #12.Some women have been raped. I have not, but should I assume it can't & won't ever happen to me? Should I not object to sexual assault because I haven't personally been a victim?
The gays who don't define themselves by their sexuality are treated with respect and dignity. It's the ones who are all up in your face about their sexuality, who define who they are by flaunting deviant sexual behavior (deviant, abnormal, nonstandard, atypical, irregular, uncommon, unorthodox, pick one, doesn't matter), that aren't treated with respect or dignity. Gays want to be treated as normal people, but normal people don't flaunt their sexual behavior, and those few straight people who do aren't treated with respect or dignity, either.And why shouldn't they be?!Why not? Just a rhetorical question, considering they have no problem coming into straight establishments of all kinds and expect to not only be served, but also be treated with respect and dignity.
Using this rationale, if the sign says " no blacks, Jews, Irish, etc. " , that would be OK? Sorry no.
Saying no gays is pure bigotry, plain and simple.
It's not complicated at all. It's all very simple. You are in business to service customers. Do so. End of story.
It's not about property rights [try erecting a structure on your property and get educated on what those rights don't include, lol], it's about being licensed to serve the public. The license conveys benefits, in return for which there are obligations, including serving all the public.
If it's ok to intrude one's religious beliefs while on the job, how about if doctors and nurses do it? Firefighters? Cops? Postal workers? Bank tellers? Loan originators? Hot dog sellers at the stadium?
Catering is different. That's commissioned or contract work, each by special request. You do not have to accept all job offers in catering. Most catering services simply couldn't even if they wanted to, so they must pick and choose which jobs they can do. The Jewish deli doesn't have to cater the neo-Nazi's event, but if the neo-Nazis enter the deli and order off the menu, the deli is obligated to fill the order.It's not about property rights? When the government tells an individual how to run his business, he gets neither property rights, nor individual rights. What of the neo-nazi group wanting a Jewish deli to cater its meeting? Or a KKK group wanting a soulfood restaurant to cater theirs? Without the ability to determine whom you want as customers, then is the business really yours?
No you should not assume it won't ever happen to you, nor should you refrain from objecting to it because you haven't personally been a victim. By the same token, you should make yourself and every other woman a victim simply because it happens to a some women, which is exactly what you did with gays in Post #12.
The gays who don't define themselves by their sexuality are treated with respect and dignity. It's the ones who are all up in your face about their sexuality, who define who they are by flaunting deviant sexual behavior (deviant, abnormal, nonstandard, atypical, irregular, uncommon, unorthodox, pick one, doesn't matter), that aren't treated with respect or dignity. Gays want to be treated as normal people, but normal people don't flaunt their sexual behavior, and those few straight people who do aren't treated with respect or dignity, either.
Guess again. That "license" isn't to convey any benefits. It's a tax collected by the issuer. It's just not called a tax because that's a bad word. The left figured out long ago that calling things what they are, when those things are no good, is a bad idea. That's why they call the business tax a business license. Like how they don't say discrimination. Eww, bad, evil thing. They call it affirmative action instead.
Already agreed to. But there is a chasm of difference between everyone being a potential victim and everyone being an actual victim, a chasm which you seamlessly bridged. Just because your perceptions and behaviors are colored by your own thoughts doesn't make you a victim of anything other than your own self-inflicted injuries.Every woman is a potential victim for such attacks, and it colors our perceptions and behaviors in ways you never have to think about. [Remember all the women drivers who won't even get out of the truck at night, or at a rest area?]
Every gay person has to consider the potential for being attacked, just for being in the wrong place at the wrong time.
Oh, we know. We know it because most of that privilege has been taken away in one form or another, mostly by the feminists who make lists of things they don't like about straight white males and therefore have defined straight white male privilege. Straight white male privilege is an invention of feminists and doesn't really even exist, but even in the realm of the fantasy, it doesn't exist as a result of a concerted effort of men to attain it. It exists in the form of the privilege of a short morning routine, of having a gender that confers authority, of having easy access to a bathroom even when no bathroom is present, and the privilege of being accused of sexual harassment when engaging in innocent flirting.Straight white males have no idea how privileged they are, sometimes.
If you'll note, you asked, "And why shouldn't they be?!" with an exclamation point and everything! And that was the totality of your response. And I gave you an answer.If you'll note, I said gays who are behaving in much the same way as other patrons. If they're acting all flaming drama queen, then throw them out. Same goes for the Miley Cyrus wannabees.
I would rather their bigotry be out in the open, on a big sign, than hidden behind the spittle and urine they would put on what they're selling.
If only it was that simple.My business, my decision.
You would rather go back to this? Wow!!!!
If only it was that simple.
Catering is different. That's commissioned or contract work, each by special request. You do not have to accept all job offers in catering. Most catering services simply couldn't even if they wanted to, so they must pick and choose which jobs they can do. The Jewish deli doesn't have to cater the neo-Nazi's event, but if the neo-Nazis enter the deli and order off the menu, the deli is obligated to fill the order.
If you want to know what it's like to be discriminated against, buy a Sprinter and then call a random mechanic and see if they'll replace the water pump in it. It's just a water pump, nothing special. As soon as you say "Sprinter" half of them will cuss you out and hang up on you.