Streakn1
Veteran Expediter
The recent thread "RE:Busy, you bet" has prompted me to finally go public and ask the following questions of the Expediting Community.
Why is it so many expediters have to ask:
Are you loaded and what is it?
Where is your load going?
How much does your load pay?
How much did you gross this past week/month/year?
Are they keeping you busy?
Are you a successful businessman/expediter?
First let me say that in my many years of driving trucks, it is the expediters that have repeatedly asked the above questions. We were raely asked these question by our peers when hauling show horses, building products, frozen food products or even the jet engines we now haul. So why is it that many expediters seem so concerned about the successfulness of their peers as compared to their own success? There are some that it almost seems to be an obsession of theirs to constantly bring this subject up to their peers. I'm not knocking this group, just making an observation and asking a question.
Then, so often its getting told without solicitation on your part of how busy and successful they have been and still are, or how they have made all of the right business decisions such as selling everything they own to be debt free,etc. Is it really their business or mine to ask the above questions of each other? Do they really care to hear how successful I may be or visa-versa. Isn't one's financial business a private matter?
Of the many times while leased to FECC that we were asked the above questions by fellow expediters (that were total strangers to us), one incedent in particular sticks in my mind:
While waiting to load at the gate of a customer, a fellow FECC driver of whom we had never met before approaches our door. Within the 30 seconds of the one sided conversation we had, he proceeds to blurt out how much he and his wife had grossed the previous year, and then asked how much we had grossed during the same year? I declined to provide that information citing that our finances are a private matter!
Why is it any of his business (or anyone's) and how bold of him to have asked!
Why is it so many expediters have to ask:
Are you loaded and what is it?
Where is your load going?
How much does your load pay?
How much did you gross this past week/month/year?
Are they keeping you busy?
Are you a successful businessman/expediter?
First let me say that in my many years of driving trucks, it is the expediters that have repeatedly asked the above questions. We were raely asked these question by our peers when hauling show horses, building products, frozen food products or even the jet engines we now haul. So why is it that many expediters seem so concerned about the successfulness of their peers as compared to their own success? There are some that it almost seems to be an obsession of theirs to constantly bring this subject up to their peers. I'm not knocking this group, just making an observation and asking a question.
Then, so often its getting told without solicitation on your part of how busy and successful they have been and still are, or how they have made all of the right business decisions such as selling everything they own to be debt free,etc. Is it really their business or mine to ask the above questions of each other? Do they really care to hear how successful I may be or visa-versa. Isn't one's financial business a private matter?
Of the many times while leased to FECC that we were asked the above questions by fellow expediters (that were total strangers to us), one incedent in particular sticks in my mind:
While waiting to load at the gate of a customer, a fellow FECC driver of whom we had never met before approaches our door. Within the 30 seconds of the one sided conversation we had, he proceeds to blurt out how much he and his wife had grossed the previous year, and then asked how much we had grossed during the same year? I declined to provide that information citing that our finances are a private matter!
Why is it any of his business (or anyone's) and how bold of him to have asked!