In the case of true teams, yes, there's going to be the issues of pay structure and decision making. In the case of spouse or significant other road companions, like in my case, those topics are not issues, for he was the expediter, not me. He would bounce ideas off me, but he held the decision. The pay was all his. I knew this before I ever went on the road with him. As for my stuff, clothing, maintenance medication, pillow and minimal makeup (so as to not violate any location's "No zoo animals within city limits" ordinances) all fit into a medium duffel bag and a small tote and fit into the overhead storage of the cab.
As I stated earlier, I was there for companionship, taking care of the non-expedite but necessary tasks, and contribute a few hours of driving relief.
I can see where non-household paid teams could become contentious. I can also see where household paid teams can be worse if the mindset for teaming isn't in place before hitting the road.
Jeff remained technically solo throughout his 9 years of expediting. I was there the last year because he was tired of being on the road 3 weeks at a time by himself. That and I think he kinda likes me (that would be "like like", LOL)
I would say, if one is considering team, what are they looking for in that capacity? Strictly professional, point A to point B...or one with a "silent" partner, which allows them to remain the controlling entity of expediting?
"Bruises fade and bones will mend-but a psyche can be ruined FOREVER" : LisaLouHoo, c. 2008