Cheri - I have looked for several days, and either I'm not looking in the right place, or that "infinite number of replies" you mention is actually a considerably smaller number, and possibly hidden inside of a reply to a completely different question? You end your comment by saying that you'd be happy to help, but all I got from your post is that if I can't find it already, nobody will do anything to actually answer my questions.
Your questions require a lot of detail to answer, and each has been discussed [small carrier or large? FedEx or Panther?] so many times, there just isn't much new to say. It's a personal preference, and only you can decide which you prefer, and you do that by reading what people have said about the various carriers over the past few years. If there were just one ideal carrier, it'd be the only one out there.
What I ended with is that if you have a question you can't find the answer for, people will reply. The questions you asked: how to split income and what to include in a contract require a LOT of detail to be helpful, and while there may be some who have the time & inclination to type it all out, odds are most won't. A search of terms such as "contracts" will pull up the threads where it already exists. It would also give you an idea as to who knows what on different subjects, which makes a major difference, IMO.
To me, that doesn't sound very helpful...in fact, in the time it took you to type your response telling me that nobody will help me in the entire forum, unless I want to read each and every post and find out if the answers are hidden in them "Where's Waldo"-style, you could have either 1) answered my questions, or 2) directed me to WHERE I would find those infinite answers.
I do want to thank you for informing me that the forum members won't be any help...that WILL save me time from further research in this forum and contacting people who clearly don't (or won't) practice what they preach.