Yeah Col, the bad areas, lets see?
Miami, Fl but I have run Carpet from Miami to Bristol,Tn...... Brownsville,Tx? Well, lots of discount auto parts to the midwest also El Paso and Phoenix, same for Laredo...... Phoenix? I have done loads to Albuquerque, Seattle, Wash DC etc..... Salt Lake City? A few locals, Portland,Or Kansas City,Mo........El Paso? several predispatches back to Detroit and Buffalo areas. Portland Seatac.......? Probably over a dozen short runs paying over $500, Yakima,Wa to Chicago, Wilsononville,Or to Tampa,Fl. Montreal?.......Some runs back to Ny, NJ area one northern Qe run from Riviere du loup,Qe to Chicago,Il
Here's my bad area, when I went to Nova Scotia (once) got shut out. And I have never heard of a load comming back from Alaska.
My point is this business can be a real guessing game and I am also a follower of the "follow yer gut" method. Numerous times after taking that marginal load to that "bad" area it has been followed up by a dynamite load. But, you also must know you're costs, variable and fixed per mile. For instance when I take a load to Portland,Or I automatically tack on 600 miles back to Reno or Sac and know my minimum acceeptable rate per mile to meet my expectations. Same with Salt Lake City and I also don't stay overnight in Phoenix.
When I do get loads out of those areas I just consider it a bonus.
As far as second guessing you're decisions. You have to focus on the big picture, not the last week or month or several months. This is a streaky business and much can be said for right place at right time.
I have a tendency to be a bit impatient and maybe more readily then most accept the marginal runs cause I like to keep the wheels turning.
I understand the self doubt and second guessing but you just have to learn to put it out of you're mind. Imagine if we knew every time we accepted that 300 mile run and 10 min latter a 1500 miler popped up.
But I find it more frustrating, say on a Fri morn to get that 500 mi for $800 offer but am looking for the big weekend score, then comes the 200 mi offer then a 350 then the phone calls, "you are the only truck in the area", "we really need yer help", "we must service this customer". Then at at 5pm "oh oh, I might be stuck here for the weekend"
As Ateam posted, if after 1 minute of trying to deceide, just accept the load and don't look back, sounds reasonable to me. And just pass on the obvious clunkers. Dispatch knows which ones they are and usually understand why you won't take em. But the order is there and they have to offer it, anyway.