OldProf..... some food for thought for you....
If I took a load to an area where I knew I'd probably sit a couple of days waiting for a load, I wouldn't sit, I'd ask to be bonused out to a better load area, and if not, I'd just drive empty at my own expense to a better area. I'd rather pay my own fuel and get a load
from the new place, than sit a day or three and earn nothing.
Yes, you are right when you say experience is important. Once you learn the good areas for your company and your size unit (it varies from size to size, so be sure to compare apples to apples and companies to companies), then you will know if you should sit somewhere, and for how long. I usually stayed in an area until about 7pm at the latest. If no loads, and especially if I wasn't near the top of the board, I'd go to another area, arrive in time to get a good night sleep, restore my available hours, and be ready for a long run in the morning. There were some areas where I would drive all night, sleep in the morning, then leave the area right away and go to a better board because I knew that I wouldn't get anything where I was for quite some time.
I probably refused less than 10% of the offers. I did take loads that others wouldn't. For example, some drivers would not go to Buffalo, because no loads back out. I would take the load to Buffalo, get bonused to Cleveland, and get a load out of Cleveland fairly soon. I didn't hang around Buffalo because I agreed that few loads come out.....but I didn't turn down the run TO Buffalo either. You will learn that some areas are great during the week but no place to be stuck on a weekend. I also took runs to far away places, because even though I knew I would have to head back empty to a better board, I was paid bonus miles to do it, and often got a load on the way back, out of the blue. Most companies try to find loads for you when you are in out of the way areas, but don't sit for days waiting for it to happen.....head for a better place. Once you know the good boards and how fast loads move out of that area, you can turn down bad loads because you know you will get another offer soon. But if you turn down a "bad" load out of a bad area, then you may be sitting in that bad area for a long time before you get another offer. All that being said, there are exceptions to everything I said. My suggestion is to take all the loads you are offered until you have enough experience to start making intelligent refusals. You'll make money. After you get the experience, you'll make even more money.