Well, let's start with this:
What kind of APU do you have now, and why, specifically, is the tech saying that it's life is waning? Could it be someone trying to sell you a new one?
We have a Proheat Gen 4, built in 2005. It has a Kubota Z482e engine, with over 18,000 hours on it.
What I don't like: It's loud. Not Rigmaster loud, but not far off. The generator (which, BTW, we're replacing, again, Monday) produces 3500 watts of AC power. Sounds sufficient, but that powers the Climate Control Unit, and little else.
The CCU has a tough time keeping the sleeper cool in anything more than 85 degrees F. Parts are pricy. A Carrier dealer will charge close to $400 for an alternator. Finding one at an alternator shop can save you $200 easy.....if you can find an alternator shop (they're a dying breed). The generator head (which we replace roughly every year) is about $7-800, just for the part.
The good:
The CCU heats the sleeper well. The coolant lines are plumbed into the truck's engine, so there are never cold truck-start issues. The engine is a Kubota. Built like a brick $hithouse. Service intervals are 500 hours. Engine parts are easy to come by. Most TA's and Petro's stock the filters. They're fairly easy to work on.
We have zero experience with a TK Tripac, but they are more quiet (run at 1800 RPM, versus the Proheat/Carrier at 3600). They produce all DC power, that is inverted. The AC is run off an engine-driven compressor. TK provides AGM batteries, which have a no-questions replacement warranty (4 years, I think). Heat is provided by an Espar heater, I believe. New Tripacs, from what I've read (the Evolution) are problematic. They are the only APU on the market that offers a diesel particulate filter. Technically, they are the only unit that's CARB-approved. Service intervals are 800 hours.
The Carrier, Tripac, and Rigmaster APU's are around $10k installed.
Our next setup:
An Onan Quiet Diesel, 7500 watts or higher; roof air, and Espar. Very, very quiet. You can hold a conversation standing next to one without raising your voice. Downside is service intervals.....150 hours. I'm told they're easy to service yourself, which is good, as few places outside of the dealers can service them.
Probably going to be about $12k all in. The roof air is huge, IMHO. We adore our rest, and I can't sleep when it's hot, and I hate idling.
Hope this helps.